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busymum
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Topic: Boarders - two questions Posted: 20 April 2008 at 9:16pm |
At the moment my brother boards with us, it's great cause we have a spare bedroom and the extra cash is a huge help. Anyway he's planning on moving to another district and we will be looking to get someone else. I guess our three options are: fostering (I don't think we're ready for an independent person as well as our three kids), boarder, or foreign exchange.
Any preference?
And for those of you who have boarders, how much do you charge? (just gathering info cause my info is now 2yrs old and prices have changed heaps in that time)
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mummy_becks
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Posted: 20 April 2008 at 9:17pm |
I would go with an exchange student, you can learn so much from them.
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Posted: 20 April 2008 at 9:26pm |
Same, I would go with an exchange student, they learn heaps and really good for the kids
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Posted: 20 April 2008 at 9:32pm |
We're thinking of doing the same thing Teresa (to bulk up the TTC #2 budget).
We're looking at a mature student as I've heard that if you get an under 18 person, you end up being their responsible guardian
I wonder if there is a website or guideline for how much you can charge for the room (like per m2) and based on the amenities in the house and local area (like libraries and public transport)?
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Posted: 21 April 2008 at 12:54pm |
we have a boarder who offered to pay $200 a week that includes the room, power, phone, internet, skytv, water and food. He offered we accepted, hope that helps I dont really know the norm
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Posted: 21 April 2008 at 1:40pm |
Yep you are responsible if they are under 18.
Things you might need to think about is that generally foreign students expect you to do everything for them (cook, clean etc), spend ages in the bathroom, can be difficult to communicate your house rules with, and sometimes don't socialise much. If you get one that loves kids though then it will be great for them.
We have three (english speaking - but different cultures) boarders, two boys and a girl. The boys are definitely a bit of a nightmare when it comes to being clean. But they are social and easy to communciate with if there is a problem.
We charge between $100-130 depending on the size of the room. But your location might play a role too.
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Posted: 21 April 2008 at 6:35pm |
I've heard horror stories from mates you have had female teenage students - double the water & power bills and mysterious calls to China but no one knows who racked up the $700 phone bill
That's why we want a "mature" student and will definitely get a toll bar on the phone! lol
Helen, where did you find our students? Did you use an agency or a website?
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Posted: 21 April 2008 at 7:27pm |
Two Blondinis wrote:
I've heard horror stories from mates you have had female teenage students - double the water & power bills and mysterious calls to China but no one knows who racked up the $700 phone bill
That's why we want a "mature" student and will definitely get a toll bar on the phone! lol
Helen, where did you find our students? Did you use an agency or a website? |
There are definitely mature students out there and they are pretty easy to "look after" so to speak. My mum has had a few Japanese students over the years one of which was a 20 something year old who was pregnant and just wanted an OE before the baby came along (smart woman!). They have all been really lovely and polite and no problems with dodgy phone calls etc haha
My brother who lives in Japan actually arranged my mum's students through his english academy. And the bonus is they are already learning english so you don't have to struggle speaking to them! I could always ask him if he has anyone "mature" looking to come to NZ if you want Toni?
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Posted: 21 April 2008 at 7:30pm |
Oh and busymum, my vote would be for exchange student too cause they are only here for a set period of time so you know they'll be out of your hair definitely! Some stay up to a year and others only weeks or months so I'm sure you could find something that suits..
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Posted: 21 April 2008 at 8:00pm |
i would go student more money........we foster kids and you dont do it for money......cause you dont get any......wat you do get is all for them and there isnt any left over......you dont have enough for nappies so quite often you are paying out of your own money...same goes for the older kids......... we had a student from korea and you end up with so much knowledge and there so fun.........really good if you have kids they learn so much from eachother :)
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Posted: 21 April 2008 at 10:13pm |
yes please Yumi
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Posted: 22 April 2008 at 9:26am |
We got ours from Trademe.
That is true about the foreign students, you know they will leave eventually (if you have problems).
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Posted: 22 April 2008 at 9:35am |
sunnyhoney wrote:
We got ours from Trademe. |
Lol, like you bought them! Love it!
Ooo this is a great topic cos we'll be looking at this next year when our flatmate moves out. I'm assuming we can charge more though cos it's a massive bedroom with ensuite and walk-in wardrobe? We'd probably just supply dinner though and the boarder can get stuff for their own breakfast/lunch.. I can see myself getting really frustrated if the boarder had lots of bread and milk and stuff and we were always running out and I had to keep going to the shop to get more (not to mention $$).
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Posted: 22 April 2008 at 9:36am |
lol
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Posted: 22 April 2008 at 1:48pm |
I would say exchange student too. Although in saying that, we have been on the lookout for months and can't find one...
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