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    Posted: 24 May 2009 at 7:21pm
My 3 month old baby has just discovered his finger/thumb. He is now what seems like continuously sucking at them to self settle or re settle himself to sleep.
Prior to finding his finger/thumb he would sleep 12hrs over night (bliss) and wake around 7.15am for a feed, then feed every 2-3hrly during the day and would get around 4-5 feeds.
Now he has found his finger/thumb he had still been sleeping 12hrs overnight until.... last night he woke at 2.30am. He was wrapped in his Miricale blanket as he has done for the past couple of months. After much rocking I gave in and gave him a 5 min feed which did not seem to settle him until I unwrapped him and re wrapped him into a blanket he could get his hand out of and started sucking away. My problem is, well not sure if it is actually a problem, I have to wake him to keep his feeds to 4hrly during the day cause now when he wakes during the day he will self settle himself back to sleep by sucking at his finger/thumb. So tonight I have put him in his Miricale blanket however I left his hand poking out the top so he could suck his finger/thumb. Not sure if I should be doing this but I am scared that he is going to start a bad habit of waking up from not being able to suck his finger/thumb.

Is the sucking of the finger/thumb a bad habit at this age, or should I be happy that he can self soothe by this method?


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I would be so happy if my son figured this out to self-soothe! I reckon it is a great thing, them always having something on hand (pardon the pun) to settle themselves when they need to. Sounds like he is sleeping a LOT during the day if you have to wake him to keep feeds to 4 hourly - I can't comment on whether this is good or not because my son only sleeps for 40 mins max during the day (in bed, will go longer in the moby). Maybe Cooper could share some sleeping tips with my Stu?
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My girl's a thumb sucker and I love it! I always wrapped her with one arm out so she could get it, it's always there and she can't lose it in the night, she only sucks her thumb when she is tired or hungry, which makes it easy when we're out and about because people can see when she's tired, it's free, she gets a good healthy dose of germs off it, and she'll grow out of it (much easier then trying to wean off a pacifier). I spoke to an orthodontist about it and thumb sucking has no impact on teeth until about age 7.
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Id be happy if my baby could self settle , make the most of it while you can !

My daughter's a thumb sucker tho, and I hate it , mind you shes nearly 7 , so a bit different ! (im too poor to afford braces!)


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if you are worried that he is sleeping too much in the day maybe you could make sure he cant get to his thumb, just leave it out at night...   

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Sounds exactly like my DD. When she discovered her thumbs we had to stop wrapping her hands. We left one out at first, then both out as she likes to swap thumbs frantically as she settles.
She also sleeps lots during the day but I don't worry about waking her up. She's growing fine and seems pretty happy, she always wakes up eventually for food.
Lately she has been sleeping less during the day as she gets older so I guess it's something they just stop doing.
I don't think you have anything to worry about at all
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Count your blessings!!!
Mika LOVES sucking her fists, sometimes she does it so loudly I can hear it when I'm in another room.
As far as I know it is really normal for babies to start sucking their hands and thumbs, it's part of exploring their bodies. And it's great if they can self settle this way. Mika settles herself well at night, but unfortunately does not seem to remember this skill during the daytime
(By the way, I haven't wrapped her since she was a few days old, as she never liked it. But I reckon it's a good idea for you to leave Cooper's hands out so he can use them to settle)
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Thanks for your replies.

Cooper slept his usual 12 hrs last night, I did hear him stirring at 4am this morning, but it soon stopped after he found his fingers and he was soon back to sleep after a few mins.

He does seem to sleep a lot during the day however when he is awake he is alert and seems normal to me, with heaps of giggles and smiles, cooing etc. He will stay awake for about an 1hr-1h 1/2. So hopefully he is getting enough awake time. But I hate having a grizzly baby and as soon as he shows his tired signs he needs to go to bed as its far to hard to settle a over tired baby. Especially mine....

I have got his 3 month immunisations on Friday so if I am still worried then I will talk to my GP.

I also thought that if it was a growth spurt he would not be sleeping much and be up feeding all the time, or can this work in the opposite way?


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Sounds like Cooper is pretty perfect to me! I wouldn't worry about the thumb sucking until they are a couple of years old. It is great that he can self settle (I would love it if my girl could) and his sleeping patterns are just amazing. Sounds like you are doing a great job! Maybe you could share some sleeping secrets!

Speaking from experience as I was a thumb sucker and I sucked it way too long . I wished my mum and dad had stopped me sucking my thumb when I was little but they didn't and then when they did try it was so hard and stressful, I remember it well... But I have the best teeth out of everyone in my family and I was the only thumb sucker. Everyone else needed braces.
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Thumbs up for self-settling here. It's so much easier than a dummy and not necessarily bad for teeth either. I tell anyone off who tries to shame my kids on account of it, too.
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