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Tastic 
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Posted: 20 December 2009 at 7:42pm |
I'm in need of a good/great present to help cheer my friend up
she found out this week she had Kidney Cancer  she will found out on Tuesday wither she need surgery and chemo or just chemo
so what can I get her? I'm making some homemade baking so will give her some, but I think it needs something else
Ideas please
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FreeSpirit
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Posted: 20 December 2009 at 8:04pm |
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A little flowering plant in a pot, something she can give a bit of love to but if she's unwell and has no energy, will survive a few days left to it's own devices.
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Posted: 20 December 2009 at 8:58pm |
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A necklace or earrings? Doesn't have to be expensive, just pretty to make her feel nice when she's feeling flat.
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Adoring Mum to Talisin 8/9/11 and Kiara 18/01/10
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High9
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Posted: 21 December 2009 at 12:36am |
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I second some jewelery, just something that she can look at and remember you by and that will bring a smile to her face!
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caitlynsmygirl
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Posted: 21 December 2009 at 2:11am |
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Those are some great ideas....you know what else she would probably really appreciate ?
a hug
a shoulder to cry on
someone to tell her that its alright for her to be pissed off , scared, feeling hard done by .
And then , your time
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Posted: 21 December 2009 at 10:39am |
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I'd make up some home made vouchers with stuff like babysitting duties (if she has kids) free for one night. A home cooked meal, a day out with the girls, a full house clean, a shoulder to cry on...
That way she might realise you are serious about being there for her (as sometimes in times like this people pull away and don't realise you ACTUALLY want to help) and then she can cash them in at any time....
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Tastic
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Posted: 21 December 2009 at 10:56am |
Thanks lady's for the Ideas, I'm still in shock and as its Tuesday tomorrow I'm actually kinda nervous for her
will look into some of the present ideas though
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nicolaann
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Posted: 21 December 2009 at 1:17pm |
I love hunnybunny's voucher idea!! Only other thing I thought of was a nice card, just letting her know you are there for her. She is lucky to have a great friend who cares about her at this time!!
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Posted: 21 December 2009 at 1:40pm |
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I don't think you need to buy a material gift, just your time, a thoughtful card and listening to her will be all she needs.
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LittleBug
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Posted: 21 December 2009 at 10:30pm |
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Some things that I gave to my friend, who just had a year of chemo, that she liked best (whilst she was in hosp heaps and stuff) was preggy pops (because nausea/vomiting is a major side effect of most chemo) and these soft slipper/sock things that she could wear around the house/hospital as well as in bed.
The vouchers for babysitting/meals/housework etc would be very valuable.
But initially your support and time and hugs are most important... write a nice supportive note or something that she can look at when she needs a pick-me-up. My friend likes reading through cards/letters and looking at photos that she has all around her of friends/family.
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A good present to cheer my friend up!
