When are friends "not your friend" ?

yeah, the same one.  There is only one, thankfully.  I say start giving them the same excuses they were giving you, see how they like it.  I told my 'friend' that I'd gone onto prepay so my texts would be scarce, and they have been.  She will still text me maybe once a week, but I'll keep my texts brief in reply.  Also she was on bebo, but then deleted her page not long after we stopped texting each other so much, and then she text me said I needed to email me photos since she wouldn't be seeing them on bebo anymore!!  I was quite glad she went off bebo as she never posted anything on her page just was on it too nosey at everyone else's.

Also being that it's our 10th anniversary this year, she wanted to know if we'd be having a big party for it (I guess she's asking now so a) she make sure she's invited and b) she can maybe plan to come to it), but I told her we weren't, just going away for a week by ourselves and maybe have a small party at our house.   And if we do, I don't think I'll invite her.

Sorry don't mean to thread-jack!