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Very interesting thread indeed! I am in agreeance (is that even a word lol) with majority on here.

While we are on the subject, at what age would you let your child ride the school bus? I am talking about a rural Auckland school that has approx 20-25 primary school aged kids on a private bus that is funded by the school/government?

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Eek, that's a tough one coz depending on how rural it is, it could potentially take a long time to drive the child to and from school. I'd probably try and find a responsible older child that catches the same bus and ask them to keep an eye on the younger one.
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Peachy, I work at a rural school and we have NE children taking the bus...although parents are expected to wait until the bus comes to take the children to school, and they don;t get off the bus unless their parent/aregiver is here. If no one is there then they come back to school on the bus. To me it's seems completlely safe and OK as the child will always be with a trusted adult, but I will say that I'm not a parent...yet....that's just what happens at my school.


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I'd be okay with the bus, depending on the bus though - i know a lot of bullying with the young ones that happens on buses. if there were some older nice kids, I'd be okay. But definitely there to meet it.
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I don't think things were any safer when I was younger. I wasn't even allow to cross the road outside my house by myself until I was almost 10. Sandringham Rd for those who know it is pretty busy and if I went over to the neighbours across the road I had to stand on the footpath and yell out for mum and dad to come and fetch me, that was 20 years ago.

Peachy, I live on the rural school bus route, and the parents tend to drop their kids off at the bus stop and the bus drops them off.

I see plenty of intermediate age kids taking themselves to school either by bike or bus and that seems a reasonable age to me. The kids have to pass a bike safety inspection and they learn about safety on the road.

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Hhhmmm, I know I have a few years left to ponder over this, but I have had "the discussion" with my Mum already!

The school bus picks up and drops off within 100 meters of our gate so I of course will walk the kid/s to and from the bus stop. I was just interested to know at what age "most" would deem it to be appropriate. We socialise wth majority of the kids in our street at the local playgroup so they would all be catching the bus together.

Guess I will just go on my gut feeling when the time comes
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Originally posted by neeandsam neeandsam wrote:

Originally posted by sweetpea sweetpea wrote:

i'm signing off on this thread before i say something i might really regret. I will just say this one thing no one knows what either themselves or others are capable of until they give something ago.

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I think the important part of this statement is that no one knows what "OTHERS" are capable of either. THATS A BIG ISSUE for me, I dont know that other people will have the same level of care and responsibilty for my child that I would.

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There is loads of stuff i realised that we are parents do that might seem over protective to others. But from our experiences in the past I really just dont give two hoots what others think.

I know for a fact I wont let my 5 year old walk to school or back by herself. It will depend on how many adults is there to supervise on a walking bus route. And even then I dont think I will allow it until they are older.

Kids of that age will still run in the road if they lose a toy ect. They dont have the capability of actually realising the consequences of their decisions. (we did look after Grants cousins kids for a while which was 6 and 9, so definately know what I am talking about)

Last year at camp there was just two of us moms that couldnt leave our kids sleeping in their rooms while we as adults had a meal together. (both of us from SA), the others let their kids (mostly under 5) sleep in teh cabins while being quite a far distance away in the hallway eating food. For me naaah wasnt on. It was a strange place, she could walk to the waterfall and drown ect ect.

I think compare to most here I will always be on the more overprotective side. I still have a child that is totally independent and I will let go when she has the common sense to make the right decision and her brain is capable of making those sort of decisions.



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Yeah I hadn't thought about the traffic increase over the years, and of course the number of teenagers on the road as well has def increased...and lots of them would be driving home at 3ish too.....now there is a scary thought. Plus the crazy Mums (sorry had to say it) around schools picking up the kids, that is sometimes scary even without having kids. I know that heaps of parents used to pick up kids in the 'olden days' but those cars were also a lot smaller and there was not the millions of people movers and 4 wheel drives like today, big monster cars that it is hard to see around at the best of times.

No way would I want my five year old in the mix there without proper supervision. Actually makes me feel sick and I don't even have a child yet!

Like the idea of the walking bus thing but how many parents do they have? Imagine looking after all the kids...sounds sort of scary but I guess it depends on how many kids per parent?



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Going back to the original post, and having taught NE for two years before - we always kept the kids in class till they were picked up.
Someone said about teachers being responsible for the kids after 3. I don't know what the law states but we are responsible for them while they are on school grounds (on a school day - although even on Teacher Only Days and weekends, you still feel responsible for the kids playing there unsupervised). We have kids dropped off as early as 7am some days which is crazy, but its what some parents do. Its hard because there is no guarantee that anyone will be there to supervise them, but for parents that can't afford before school care its the easiest option for them. Fortunately the caretaker is there by then, and a couple of early bird teachers who usually make sure the kids are warm and fed

Man, that was a ramble! I wouldn't let my 5 year old (who is not born yet) walk to school by him or herself. A lot can and does happen on the way to and from school for kids and we've had some scary situations where I work. Some of our kids (and I don't live in the area I work) have to walk through some very dodgy areas. if children are not picked up we call caregivers and have cases where we can't get hold of anyone, including emergency contacts. Just want people to know (as I'm sure you all do) that teachers really care about their kids, and it is our duty to make sure they are safe - it doesn't matter what time it is.

Couldn't help commenting If that makes no sense, blame it on having a very pregnant brain and being home bored.
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Im not worried about Caitlyn going on to the road, ive been very blunt with her for as long as she can understand , -cars cant see kids, she will get hit and it will be bad .
But I do worry about her walking and someone reversing quickly out of the driveway , or her tripping up and landing on the road .
Things that might never happen , but I don't want to take the risk anyway .

But as I said if that means im "over protective " then thats fine with me , can think of plenty worse parenting things i could be doing .


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Havent yet reached the NE phase as a mum but as a child, from NE I caught the Bus. I remember Mum waiting with me at the bus stop in the mornings then lining up after school in the hall- waiting for the bus, there was always a teacher in the hall with us.

Id definately would want supervsion over my child in that end of day transition

It erks me that young children would walk alone. And yet there are laws about children under a certain age being home alone
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I have a new entrant. They aren't held in class BUT we are at a country school (140) which basically is on a pick up basis only, too damn far to walk. Some kids wait in class, I guess she is secure in knowing I will be there to pick her up that she doesn't worry about waiting for me in the class. Plus she knows EVERYONE or at least they know her LMAO.

If I am a little late to pick her up I will always find her somewhere on the playground, even those times I am standing outside her class I miss her & then realise she's gone past & is on there.

We have a small class & there is a group of us Mum's who stand around chatting & we all sorta know who belongs to who.

On the subject of walking home....5 year olds can be smart but at times also have no brain cause they are one track minded.
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