Fair enough too Liz....Why should work around them? You have two little ones and you should do what suits you!!
I am glad tho that you had a nice Xmas. What can be better than spending some quality time with your own little family
I am glad that L is on your side tho....I bet if it was my hubby he would side with my SIL (if I had one)...and then I would have made him suffer for the rest of his life.....Oh look I am still in my Evil phase (looks permanent!!!

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Having said that...I will be SIL to my brothers G/friend one day....I hope I am not a Biatch to her.....I do get along with her....