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Kellz
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Posted: 30 April 2007 at 9:34pm |
Lol Kelly,..I had 8 of them
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Leish
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Posted: 01 May 2007 at 7:23am |
Gawd - glad that i'm not the only one  LOL
I noticed that I am def not as "strong" down there as I used to be  I'm too scared to have SEX with the hubby cos it might feel too weird so I keep putting him off by saying that I haven't sorted the contraception yet. I think that excuse is starting to wear thin. Have to think of something else...
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busymum
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Posted: 01 May 2007 at 7:41am |
Oh I hate that! My drive is at an all-time low, I'm still not "stretched" properly where the stitches are, and somedays I think I could do without forever!  But at least the stitches don't feel fresh anymore.
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Kellz
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Posted: 01 May 2007 at 8:27am |
I suprisingly had sex only 3 weeks after I had Isla,..it still feels way different than it did before, but hubby says he doesnt notice, so Im trying to just come to terms with thats the way it is now. Have no drive tho
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Leish
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Posted: 01 May 2007 at 8:50am |
Yep same here - absolutely no drive most of the time.
I didn't have stiches this time so I think it would be all good to go from every other respect - just feel a bit nervous I guess. He would probably be the same as yours Kellz and not notice anything different - esp after making him wait so long...
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daikini
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Posted: 01 May 2007 at 9:10am |
I didn't really start getting any sort of drive for my own sake until Xavier was about 3 months old... same with Josiah, actually. Its funny, but the more frequently us women get some, the more we start to want it! My midwife said that sex is a really good way to exercise the PC muscles, as you tend to tighten them during orgasm.
Of course, I'm a shocker and since I didn't have stitches after delivering either of the boys we were back having sex once the swelling went down - about 7 days later!
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busymum
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Posted: 01 May 2007 at 10:34am |
I found with the others, I really didn't get the drive back until my AF cycle was also back. But "fortunately" for me it was back at 3 months! (Not this time and I'm so nervous that it's gonna hit me unawares lol)
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