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    Posted: 19 June 2008 at 6:21pm
Feeling a bit depressed at the moment. It's study week (I'm in 1st year nursing) and I've missed out 3 days of study as Kahtrell's been sick. I'm sooo anxious as I have my health assessment skills test on Monday and I feel I haven't become competent enough. We have to do the vital signs and examine a randomly chosen part of the body, write down our findings and act like our partner is an actual patient. Also next year when we're on clinicals the hours are either 7-3pm or 3-11pm, normal hospital shift hours, but the problem is you can't choose which one, you have to do both, and for some of the clinical placements you could be sent out anywhere in the waikato region. I dunno what I'm gonna do, maybe I've chosen the wrong path. I don't know how I'm going to cope with day care, maybe dp could change his hours, thats one avenue I guess. I think it'll put a strain on the relationship, it'll mean less time with Kahtrell and dp when I'm on afternoons.

I'm just so stressed and depressed!!....and lonely since it's just me and son home at the mo.......







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Big hugs hun!!!! I bet you will be fine next week.  just practice your vitals signs on anyone who will let you. Have a little notebook you can put in your pocket with the normal ranges until you have memorised them. What part of the body are you going to do??


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its random, they roll a dice. So have to swat up on nutrtion (height, weight, BMI, skin, nails, hair), eyes, ears, mouth, neck and upper extremeties, and lower extremeties. It's doing BP that I'm most worried about, listening for the right sounds. Everything else is fine cos I can go through them in my head. Wish I had my own cuff!







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I was soo scared learning bp's as well but it just takes practice and honestly you will hear the beat lol. As long as you feel for the pulse and put the stethoscope in that possy you will hear it clearly. We got to take them home to pratice. Honest you will be fine. I remember feeling so nervous too lol I found year one the most fun!!!


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Yeah fingers crossed!!. Thanks Kels Yeah next week I'll be fine.....Im not even worried about the 4 other exams/tests I have lolz. Am worried about yr 2 and 3 though, well clinicals anyway. But I should worry about that next year lol. But it's making me think I should change my study to something so it doesn't impact so much on Kahtrell and dp, doing the arvo shifts for clinicals will probably cause that to happen...then again its 3 days a week for clinicals next year. I dunno!







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I did part time in year 2 be cos I had Mercedes in Jan and yr 2 started in end of Feb. It made it easier to do clinicals when I was doing my practice papers without too much study on board


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I'm sure you'll make the practical side of things work, and you have Kels and Janine to give you tips on how they juggled things. You'll be fine!

Best of luck with your vital signs assessment!
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Thanks Emma!!
Yeah Kels I was thinking maybe doing 2nd year part time, just to make it a bit easier. Well least I know that there is someone out there who studied nursing and juggled littlies as well, and made it!!.







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And it will pay off in the long run Eva, you can work anywhere in the world and actually get paid good money overseas. Im not going to complain about here either as I get a lot compared to most of my working friends. You will get thru no doubt!!!


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Also sometimes what they tell you at college isn't how it actually operates when you are out on your placements. I found lots of places were actually quite flexible - not that I had a child at the time but was working ( and also I am in chch so it may be different).

Bp is honestly easy - I remember that first test and it was at least 9 years ago. We had to do it on actors so it was soooo nerve wracking. Its amazing how much you actually know when put in the situation. I was that nervous that I went down to my GP's practise and asked if I could use their equipment to practise....

Is first year still rest home placements?
       
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Mine was and I was 8mths preg and hated it!! I have an appreciation for people who can work in resthome because I cant. I am sooo scared of elderly people, i hated being alone with them except for one elderly nun who always want to say the rosary with me so that got me out of at least an hours work hehehehe


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You'll get there, afternoons are hard, but not really that bad once you consider that bubs is likely to be in bed for a large part of that, hubby will get really good at cooking meals too if he already hasn't (that's a big plus!!)

It does seem scary and hard, I remember my first health assessment examination freaking me out soo badly. But remember, in the end it's only one thing.

Taking vitals comes pretty quickly but it's lots of practise that's getting you there, also, remember though that the health assessment test is there to actually help you figure out what to brush up on or any areas you need to look back over. I always found the hwole "role playing" part hard. I could never talk to my classmates in anursey way, i felt silly. Gimme real patients and no probs. I actually had my lecturers say that to me too.

As for blood pressures and cuffs... Am unsure where you are studying but our ucol would have lab sessions at least once a week in addition to our scheduled ones where we could go in and practise anything - i think that came from us actually requesting them and a great teacher saying "yeah sure". We also bought our own stethoscopes, and many girls actually got bf cuffs with them as a package. Let me track down the site you can buy them from - last i looked they were fairly reasonable, plus it means you can practise on family/hubby lol anyone whose arm you can grab.

Will have a look for the site and post it on here tomorrow if i can.

As for sick kids.. ick, every placement i had probably about 3 days off nearly cos of sick kids - it's like they had a radar to get sick every placement and every time i had an assignment due.

Clinical placemements feel like you are spending heaps of time away from them, it really does. There were nights where i would look out the ward windows up high and could see out over to our neighbourhood and be thinking "i wonder what they're doing right now" same with daytimes - i could see out over to the daycare, i could actually see ucol. that was hard too.

The main thing to remember, is that placements are short 2 - 3 weeks at a time, mostly you'll have alternating shifts as well.   With travelling, make sure you let them know your circumstances and most places will be really great. I was lucky enough to only be asked to travel once - they wanted me to do a placement in masterton once, I told them no.... basically for the fact that it was due to finish a week before i had one of the kids.. being stuck down in masterton in labour was not something i wanted to risk lol.

The other thing to think about with placements is that. really, they are setting you up slowly for working... It took me a while to realise this. I lived from placement to placement, until i got the job up at the hospital, with rostered shifts, and realised, that THIS wasn't going to be over in 2 or 3 weeks... this was IT. and that's when i realised that those placements in short bursts not only taught me the skilss, but slowly got my family used to the routines etc, and got us all into workable routines for different shifts.

And once you're working - you can kinda dictate the number of days you do. I only work 4 days a week. Once mike finishes his study, I will likely cut down to 3 days a week to spend more time with my kids.

And whereas on placements you do like a week of afternoons and then a week of mornings and such, when you start work you can work a mix of them in - I try to get a good mix of 2 days mornings and 2 afternoons, same as i request every second weekend off so that i get family time, but also still get the perks of earning time and a half for weekend work. You work into a routine that fits for you. and it does make you miss them, it does. But, you see hubby take on more roles in caring for the little person - you see their bond develop, and it makes a different dynamic, gives them a new respect for what you usually would be doing too.

The idea about a small notebook is realllly handy. I got myself a small little pocket address book which then i could organise things into alphabetical setions for easy referal - i still do it now at work. a few of my colleagues do too. one of them has been there for about 10 years i think - you should see her book, it's like the neonatal bible!

Good luck for your test, you'll be fine.    In a couple of years time, when you graduate, you'll look back and laugh about how scared you were about taking blood pressures etc. I remember giving antibiotics for the first time at my job - god i took slow push to a whole new level. lol.... I still am not happy with injections - cos the ones i have to do it on are so so so tiny, finding the right muscle on a 1kg baby, is darn impossible.     

Anyway, you live and learn and find things easier as you go along - just like parenthood.

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Woahhhh... this is a bit off topic but thank goodness you girls are around! I'm so glad you've been able to give support to Eva. I know how it feels when it gets on top of you and you feel like giving up!

But seriously chick, keep on trucking. You'll be fine. And next year will be a whole different ball game... Kahtrell will be heaps older and more independent and you'll be getting more sleep (hopefully ) and have more of a routine set up.

It'll all be worth it in the end - as Kels said, nursing is such a valuable thing to have. Good luck!!
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All the best for your nursing, sounds like you have a few on here who have been through it. Big ups to you for studying after having your bub.

My only advice would be to talk to DH about the possible hours you might have and work out with you both how you will be able to cope, then you won't be so stressed about it.

Keep your chin up and good luck with your tests.
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