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IVFGirl1111 
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Posted: 16 January 2009 at 11:10am |
Around ovulation time?!
I was talking with a friend last night that knows we are TTC and she had had an argument with her man and she said that he wasnt getting any action for a week! And that lucky they werent TTC!
Which made me think - if you were angry with your other half around ovulation time - would you put it aside just so you could get the um er sperm? Or would you just hold out until the next month?!
I thought it was quite an interesting question! 
Me personally if I was angry with DH - I wouldnt want to be bd'ing so we would miss ovulation that month and hope he was better the next month! 
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Posted: 16 January 2009 at 11:20am |
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Lol!
Um yeah I've been peeved with DP round O time and we still BD'd - we did it for the cause lol
I wouldn't do it if I didn't have to take pills to get AF and then take Clomid to O, but for me to do that and not BD round O time would seem like a waste.
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Posted: 16 January 2009 at 11:32am |
Maybe, if he's not getting any action then neither am I. However at the moment I'm avoiding bd'ing at O time. so no probs there.
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Posted: 16 January 2009 at 11:37am |
Funnily I've been thinking about this question too! I have been so damn tense with DF during ov this month that we haven't taken full advantage of this fertile time!! TTC really is so stressful isn't it!?! next month I am determined to try to relax a bit more and not obsess about it as I think that leads to most of our tension and is not conducive to BDing 
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Posted: 16 January 2009 at 12:12pm |
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Hey BooBoo
I think it would depend on how angry I was at him. In the past we've not done it around O time, but at the moment we've got limited cycles left to try naturally so if we didn't I'd feel like we were wasting a month. But if I was really really p*ssed at him I probably wouldn't BD.
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Posted: 16 January 2009 at 12:16pm |
I wouldn't, i'd just try and sort it out by the next day and hopefully have a go then lol 
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Posted: 17 January 2009 at 12:02am |
lol!!!! I would put it aside then sort it out later nuf said!!!
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Posted: 17 January 2009 at 9:17am |
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I'd leave it for that night and try the next day as it would just be too much to BD when I was angry. Though if the fight was over something little I might try and calm myself down and get over it I guess - but if I was still angry I wouldn't.
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Posted: 17 January 2009 at 10:13am |
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I guess the bigger question for me is how much effort I'd put into getting over it. If it was O time I'd probably work a bit harder to work it out than if it wasn't O time.
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Posted: 17 January 2009 at 10:47am |
hmmm there's definitely something to be said for angry BDing though
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Posted: 17 January 2009 at 8:20pm |
Wouldnt that be make up sex?
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Posted: 19 January 2009 at 10:30am |
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We missed my biggest day of ferning ever due to an argument. Haven't had ferns like that since. Sad.
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