Chanel X: Not wise  and don't think this site would allow it, as all Adoptions are  few each year, if any they are processed  as Open Adoptions, through CYF, must be approved first by back ground checks.
 
Despite if you trying this way, and  find or work some thing privately out,  all Adoptions are Open Adoptions in NZ nowadays unless  both parties agree other wise. There is a clear  certain and Ethical and Legal way to do Adoptions.
 
You can though  go through your own GP and discuss any of these issues first , as at times some couples have  been helped through their GP. But then all Adoptions still go through CYFS  Legally they are the clearing  place for all Children in need, as CYFS will do a Police check first, then  you need a Home study,then may be a Pych  Check if they require one, for suitability  of parenting,Medical etc, then if successful  the formal court proceeding, depending on circumstances  if Baby or child Adoption in NZ can take 12- 24 mths and longer.
 CYFS  Adoption Laws says you need to be 25 and  over, be able to prove  to be fit to Adopt, by their Rules and Regulations. 
 
These are CYFS Guidelines, not mine. Simply check with them.
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