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  | Leahsmummy   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Topic: How long?? Posted: 05 November 2008 at 9:29am
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   Do you have to wait to have another baby after a c-section?? Not that im thinking rite now but when Leah is bout 9-10months old we were gona start trying. So whens it save??
 But im also really nervous already about getting preggie and having to have another emer c-section.
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  | tishy   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 05 November 2008 at 9:36am | 
 
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   My MW told me 2 years. But I never asked if that was from birth - start of pregnancy or birth - birth.
 However I'm a firm believer that if your body wanted more time to recover from the c-section then it wouldn't get pregnant IYKWIM
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  | cuppatea   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 05 November 2008 at 10:06am | 
 
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   My doc said I was ok to start trying when Spencer was 7 months. She said there would be the time that it took us to try plus the 9 months that I'm pregnant for. Apparently the stretching of pregnancy isn't a problem it is the labour itself. Mine was a straight forward elective and I healed very well, so that might make a difference. I would talk to your gp next time you are seeing them just to get a professional opinion.
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  | peachy   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 05 November 2008 at 1:10pm | 
 
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   My m/w told me not to get pregnant for atleast a year.  Not just because of the c section but also because I had a horrific and long labour, so to give my body a good break after pregnancy and the c section.
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  | LeahandJoel   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 05 November 2008 at 2:27pm | 
 
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   I got pg 2nd time when Leah was 13 months, was never told a time frame, but I know people who were told to wait a year, only problem I had was 10 days before Joel was born I had a lot of pain on the scar, turns out I also had sky high BP (only time whole pg) and was having mild contractions. When I was actually in labour had no problems from the scar at all, and I ended up having a forceps VBAC. ETA: great name for your baby by the way and congrats on her birth. 
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  | NeoshasMummy   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 05 November 2008 at 2:30pm | 
 
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   We were told about a year by the Ob becuase I had such a traumatic and long labour and he thought I had issues that I needed to deal with post Emergency c/sect but my midwife told me 8 months is fine.
 We started trying when Neosha was 9 months and just couldn't get pregnant with a sticky bubba, we had several very early M/C so we gave it a break and may try again soon. I also believe in your body knowing when it is ready.
 
 
 
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      Mrs Te Kani ❤️ Neosha 26/5/2007
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  | Leahsmummy   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 05 November 2008 at 3:13pm | 
 
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   Thanks everyone, I see my gp for Leahs 6week jabs so I will ask him then. 
 Hehe Lisa it is a great name aye.    | 
 
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  | pomikiwi   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 05 November 2008 at 9:28pm | 
 
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   I wasnt told a time frame either, but I think my MW knew after my experience I wouldn't be rushing into it. I do recall saying I was never having another baby, lol!
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  | Shezamumof3   Senior Member
 
   
 
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 06 November 2008 at 8:45pm | 
 
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   I might have been preganant last month and my MW said to me that the pregnancy itself isnt the problem its the labour. She also said(when i told her AF came) that she was glad as my body needed more time to heal after my traumatic birth.
 I had a 48 hour labour ending in an emergecy c section, i also lost 1000ml of blood and had swollen bowels, not nice. So we are waiting until caden is rounf 10-12 months old. Just to be on the safe side!
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  | busymum   Senior Member
 
   
 
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 06 November 2008 at 9:09pm | 
 
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   I wasn't given a time frame at all so we let nature took it's course and there's 19mos between our c/s and VBAC babies. The OB I saw made no comment about it being too close and we had the choice of c/s or VBAC - no issues there.
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  | toniellis   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 07 November 2008 at 3:35pm | 
 
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   I was never told a time frame either. 19 months between my 1st c-section & my 2nd c-section & then just a smidge under 2 years between my 2nd c-section & my homebirth. LOL I didn't plan the short age gaps it just happened that way... 3 under 4 has been fun though 
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  | MissAngel   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 08 November 2008 at 8:44am | 
 
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   I was told a year before trying again, suits me fine - we're not gonna start trying again until Thomas is in kindy anyway.
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