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  | Murmel   Newbie
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Topic: Baby Movement Posted: 14 September 2010 at 10:19am
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     Hi there!.....we're having our first and am at 20 weeks, felt the little thing quite a bit last week, but since the scan things have gotten rather quiet...is that normal?
 Just wondering if I should be worried at this stage, or not worry too much as it's still pretty small I guess and may have moved into a position where I can't feel it as much????
 Any thoughts?
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  | 1st_Time_Preggies   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 14 September 2010 at 10:21am | 
 
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   Some days babies are quieter than others      At 20 weeks I could feel my son more some days and less on others.  As he got bigger I felt the movements more and more.  I wouldn't worry too much (I know that is hard!) but if you are feeling worried talk to your midwife.
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  | caliandjack   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 14 September 2010 at 10:40am | 
 
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   I've had similar experiences on and off, some days baby is simply quieter than others.  Now I keep track of her movements and as long as I get 10 or more during the day I stop counting after I've had a dozen or so then I know she's fine.
 In the book I got from my MW it has a movement diary to keep track.
 At 20 weeks they've got lots of room to move and can be in a position that you can't feel them.
 
 If you are at all worried talk to your MW.
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  | High9   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 14 September 2010 at 12:21pm | 
 
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   Not sure about you, but I had an anterior placenta, started feeling movements about 20 weeks but was very random and it wasn't until about 25 weeks that they we more definite and had a proper pattern iygiwm. Remember babies sleep a lot so you'll have short bursts of them being active and at 20 weeks they still have so much space to bounce around! 
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  | tiptoes   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 14 September 2010 at 2:17pm | 
 
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   Yeah I remember being the same and often having a glass of icy water and laying down would bring on movements.  
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  | Murmel   Newbie
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 15 September 2010 at 12:11pm | 
 
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     Hey, thanks everyone! 
 I had a bit of a flutter last night, yay!
 By everyone’s comments I’m not going to worry too much at this stage. 
 Glad others have been going though similar things!
 Thanks again! 
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  | xcitdmum2b   Groupie
 
   
 
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 15 September 2010 at 2:06pm | 
 
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   Heya Murmel, I am 20 weeks on Monday and have been really worried about lack of movement too. I am sure people just brush me off as being paranoid but it is quite a big deal for a first time mum - I suppose we tend to over-analyse things and worry a bit more as it is so new, exciting and scary. I think I might have felt something a couple of times but not sure if it is really the baby or not but most days there is absolutely nothing. I am sure it wont be long before we find their kicks annoying and will be wishing they wont move so much. Until then your worries have settled mine a little. Thanks! 
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  | CJsays   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 16 September 2010 at 1:07pm | 
 
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   I was lucky to feel mine early on (15 weeks) but I had a bout 4 days after the first where I felt nothing!  It's really only now that I a feeling regular strong movement, but again I think I am alot earlier than most, might be cuz I have a very slender tummy (well used to have one hehe).  Alot of websites say it is normal to not even feel baby for the first time until even 22 weeks, so I wouldn't worry.
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  | Murmel   Newbie
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 16 September 2010 at 2:19pm | 
 
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   Yes, I think as first timer  it is very easy to over-analyse everything that’s happening to your body at this stage. Every pinch and strange feeling sometimes seem a worry, and it’s probably nothing!!! Silly!? But I guess it’s better to be over cautious than just accept that that's how things should be! 
 I think it's great to have the use of a forum like this just to ask some questions and to hear others' stories, ideas comments!
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