|  bowie wrote: 
 Bizzy, i wouldnt want to put teens with teens either - i was more thinking someone who had been there done that but was now older and had their sh*t together but able to relate.
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Unfortunately teens distrust anyone not a teen!  For some wierd reason they think our advice must be wrong or out of date or something...  Glad i'm not a teen anymore but sure not looking forward to having teens!  sheesh!!!  

 and i have three! 
you make a good point bowie about having trained counsellors or volunteers with basic training.