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   MILF  
   
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     Posted: 08 May 2006 at 12:23pm | 
 
 
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   he may change his mind once the baby is here..... or you could wait till you are in labour and then ask him, who could turn down a woman in pain?
    
   
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     Posted: 08 May 2006 at 2:50pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   my dp and i are only 25, so i think it would be foolish of us to start thinking about permenant contaception, especially as if we were to part he'd probably want to have a family with his new partner (i know thats a bit of a doom and gloom attitude but my mother taught me to be prepared for every eventuality)    
    
   
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     Posted: 08 May 2006 at 2:56pm | 
 
 
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   That reminds me of Desperate Housewives...
    
   
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     Posted: 08 May 2006 at 4:09pm | 
 
 
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   Well I'm only 22 & my man is 25 so we are very young for permanent contraception. 
 I'm just so positive that I don't want anymore babies though. 
    
   
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     Posted: 09 May 2006 at 2:41pm | 
 
 
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   i don't think they will tie your tubes, my freind asked about this and was told no and she is 29 with 3 kids, have you looked into maybe getting an iud? no pills or worrying about condoms, you can get it put in 6 weeks after having bubs, and you don't need to worry about it for 5 years when they send you a letter saying its time to get it changed.
    
   
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     Posted: 09 May 2006 at 4:22pm | 
 
 
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   I'm pretty sure an IUD is my only option at this stage. Since I've gotten pregnant on both the combo pill & the mini pill and the depo injection doesn't agree with me at all. 
 Doesn't really leave much except the IUD & condoms or sterilisation. Only thing I'm worried about is that my best friend has got these lovely scan pics of her bubba & you can quite clearly see the T shape of her IUD off to the side!! Very rare I know but sheesh just goes to show that nothing is 100% effective aye!!! 
    
   
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     Posted: 09 May 2006 at 6:29pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   there is a alltertived to the iud its called a mir and unlike the iud it helps with heavey periods and pains cramps my doc is trying to get me one for free because they are very expences   
    
   
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     Posted: 12 May 2006 at 8:56pm | 
 
 
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   i got pregnant whilst on the pill too, so did most of my freinds who have kids, i don't trust the pill at all.
    
   
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   I remembered time when I was on maternity leave and out of money. And at that time, I found a crazy way of earning some money. I started to play poker online and  wild casino slots. And it helped me to survive. I cannot say I could achieve some terrific winnings, but it was real help for me. Since that time, I sometimes go to online casino to improve my budget for shopping. 
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