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Vanillabean 
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Posted: 06 July 2008 at 1:54pm |
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I just feel so sad right now and nothing really seems to help for long. And I am feeling obsessed with trying to prevent another miscarriage, I can't really think about much else.
I hope I feel better soon. I already take antidepressants (God knows what state I'd be in right now if I didn't), and I've had counselling and my friends,family and workmates have been lovely and supportive, but grieving is just such hard work.
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5x mc, Jan 08, June 08, Nov 08, May 09, April 11
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WestiesGirl
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Posted: 06 July 2008 at 3:11pm |
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Our Angel July 08  Gone but not forgotten
And to complete our family, our princess has arrived
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katie1
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Posted: 06 July 2008 at 3:52pm |
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I really feel for you. What you are feeling is so normal but I know that doesn't help. Sending you a huge hug. Take care.
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ElfsMum
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Posted: 06 July 2008 at 5:01pm |
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*sigh* yes i second what PP said...i was the same:( big hugs to you!
Edited by foxxy_one
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Maya
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Posted: 06 July 2008 at 8:39pm |
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Big hugs to you. Grief sucks, but it is definitely a process and it does get easier with time.
OT but I like the quote in your signature, "while I breathe, I hope."
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The Gremlins:Sienna Marie & Mercedes Kailah (14/10/06)
Lil miss:Chiara Louise Chloe (09/07/08)
Her ladyship:Rosalia Sophie Anais (18/06/12)
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linda
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Posted: 06 July 2008 at 8:46pm |
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I felt the same after my last MC but kept it pretty much to myself. I just couldn't get my mind off everything relating to the baby. It took a couple of weeks for me to accept what had happened. I really missed not going onto the Due in Dec thread on a daily basis and being able to talk about all things baby relating. Its now a couple of months since my MC and I have only just stopped myself lurking in this thread...and its not easy, even now.
I hope that time helps with the healing process
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Nefertiti
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Posted: 06 July 2008 at 11:19pm |
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I still have a lurk in the due Jan thread linda....but like you, I have been trying to go in there less and less.
Unfortunately I feel (well for me anyway), when you are TTC'ing so much of your time if spent thinking about that and when finally getting a BFP you can finally start looking to the future. But to have that all taken away by a m/c is heartbreaking. No matter how early it was.
I know how you feel Vanillabean and hope that you can find some comfort here at OB. I know that I have over the past few weeks.
BIG HUGS to you!!!
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mummyofprinces
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Posted: 08 July 2008 at 10:36pm |
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Oh chicky, it just sucks!
Its not far, we dont deserve it and it just sucks!!!!!!
Big hugs lovely.
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