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   caraMel  
   
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     Topic: Argh family dramas!!     Posted: 14 May 2008 at 11:14am | 
 
 
  
   
   
   I can't go into details to explain what it is but GAH!!!!!
 Everyone is stressed and so worried and no one can fix things. All we can do is worry and support. 
 Worried about person involved, worried about people trying to support them, trying to support all of them.... Its all just so complicated and keeps getting worse.
 Feeling like my advice and ideas are useless, nothing seems to help.              
Excuse my rambliness, I just need to unload away from it all where its not going to stress anyone else out! 
     
   
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     Posted: 14 May 2008 at 11:48am | 
 
 
  
   
   
     caraMel.
 It's terrible when you're worrying about someone and you feel helpless.  Just remember that you cannot be all things to all people and you must look after yourself.  Don't get too down!
     
   
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     Posted: 14 May 2008 at 5:43pm | 
 
 
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   Ramble away! Big hugs Mel!
    
   
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     Posted: 14 May 2008 at 6:29pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   Oh man that sucks when you are only trying to help. 
    
   
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     Posted: 14 May 2008 at 7:37pm | 
 
 
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Busy mum to Miss 15yrs, Miss 10yrs and Master 4yrs
      
   
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     Posted: 14 May 2008 at 9:14pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   I hear ya CaraMel, I'm also having probs with my family of origin. Apparently my little (15yo) sister is not allowed to stay with us because I'm a bad influence on her      
    
   
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     Posted: 14 May 2008 at 10:08pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   Thanks guys! 
 Things are just so up and down, everyone is stressed out and emotional. Its making people argue with each other    
I just wish things would hurry up and get sorted out. 
     
   
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     Posted: 14 May 2008 at 10:47pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   I hope for everyone's sake it gets sorted and you and your gorgeous family get some time out soon.
 
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     Posted: 14 May 2008 at 11:21pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
       Thanks Mel! 
 I decided I needed a treat. 
     
   
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     Posted: 15 May 2008 at 9:27am | 
 
 
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   hugs... family issues can be so all consuming eh! Totally know what you mean and hope it settles down for you soon!
 
    
   
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