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Oxy 
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Posted: 03 February 2009 at 3:19pm |
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How much BDing does everyone do each month in order to conveive
Whats the weekly average that everyone does
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Mum_mum
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Posted: 03 February 2009 at 3:30pm |
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lol you are a curious thing Oxy!
We BD every 2nd day from the end of AF. worked for us.
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kebakat
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Posted: 03 February 2009 at 3:40pm |
We did it every day that I wasn't bleeding, has worked 3 times for us lol though I doubt everyone does that 
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minik8e
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Posted: 03 February 2009 at 3:53pm |
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We BDed on average twice a week. Worked for us too. We were kind of lucky that ov fell on one of our normal "BDing" days (i.e. a day we got to sleep in).
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Posted: 03 February 2009 at 4:51pm |
We are currently trying to BD every day since this is our first month ttc and I don't know when I am going to ovulate.
Before ttc we probably averaged 3 times per week. It does get a bit tiring though, looking forward to my chart telling me I've ovulated so we can have a rest.
Funny cause DH always used to want it more than me but he is finding the every day thing a bit tough 
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LouD
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Posted: 03 February 2009 at 5:11pm |
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Jane25 I hear ya on that one.
Last month we BDed 7days straight leading up to OV, and then i just couldnt do it anymore after I thought i had OVed. then 4 days later i got EWCM and my temps went up!!!!!!! arrrrgggghhhhh I had done all that BDing and stopped thinking i had OVed and then missed the boat completely!!!!!!
So this month I endeavour to BD from CD7 nonstop until my temps go up and proceed to fall in a heap from shear exhaustion...........And because i know that I will be doing that I cant bear to go anywhere near my DH(until CD&7) who gets really ansy after more than 2 days with no action!!!
He even didnt pay any attention to the nat fertility lady who said to give it a big rest and just have 'CUDDLES" until my fertile window again. (AS IF!!!!!!)
Hes loving this whole baby making thing thats for sure!!!!
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Posted: 03 February 2009 at 5:47pm |
LOL. We've been BD'ing nearly everyday. My cycles are all over the place so i don't know when i'll be ovulating.
With our son i think we BD'd most days too & i got pregnant the first month. So i'm hoping to have the same luck this time. 
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Posted: 03 February 2009 at 10:15pm |
We BDed every second day from CD 8 the every day from CD 12. Althought the cycle I fell pg we BD'ed a little bit more than normal 
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AngieBabe
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Posted: 04 February 2009 at 8:05am |
We BD every second day from about CD8 as that's what all the medical professionals and my accupuncturist said was really necessary  There is the odd time we'll manage two days in a row but doing it all the time, no way, we don't have enough stamina in this household!! 
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Posted: 04 February 2009 at 10:17am |
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We used to BD every day for the week around O time - sometimes even twice a day. But we're so over it now we just try to BD every second day, and if the BD day isn't the day I O we might BD the day before, day of and day after O if we feel like. But we don't try and force it any more - if we don't feel like we don't do it.
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Posted: 04 February 2009 at 11:53am |
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Hmm well we aren't trying at the moment and BD is if we are lucky once a month. I have no idea how things are going to go when we decide to start trying. As long as we do it around ov i'll be happy.
My worst fear is that sex becomes a task i really don't want that to happen.
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Posted: 04 February 2009 at 12:09pm |
We're a bit the same as sweetpea, weekends is the only chance we get to have any time together, and the last few times there wasn't much chance of any conceiving taking place sorry TMI.
If DH ends up in Akl, we'll be lucky to see each other more than once a month.
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Posted: 04 February 2009 at 8:55pm |
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With Emma, when TTC, we did it every other day after AF and got preggers that month.
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Posted: 05 February 2009 at 10:56am |
When we were ttc with Emily we did it every day from CD9 until CD16. First month no luck but next month we hit the jackpot (hence Emily). It was a bit tiresome but then we found spoon position required less effort, was nicer cause you got to snuggle lots - and it worked!
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 8:45pm |
We BD pretty much every day with only ever a day missed in between.
Yet to know if it's worked though. AF is 3 days late, but test was BFN. 
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