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   minik8e  
   
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     Posted: 10 June 2010 at 11:34pm | 
 
 
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   I'm the same LB - this particular school has "donations" included in their "fees".  As far as I'm aware, your children can't be penalised due to the non-payment of a "donation" because they're not compulsory.  There was a major media focus on this exact subject last year, where another integrated school suggested to a mother that she sell her house to pay "outstanding" school donations.
    
   
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     Posted: 11 June 2010 at 7:39am | 
 
 
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   In 5 years time your income will be higher as you'll be qualified and most likely working full time.
 
 The guys at work bring in the fundraiser chocolate which goes towards paying for school camp - I know a few of them have covered the entire cost simply by selling chocolate. 
    
   
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     Posted: 11 June 2010 at 9:32am | 
 
 
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   Some schools will often print a form of what you owe and include the donation in the total so you pay it without realising.
 
 Kate I remember that lady, but it was a private school and she had spent money on other things like holidays but claimed she couldn't afford the donation. Other parents didn't see why they should have to fork out for her kid iygwim
    
   
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     Posted: 11 June 2010 at 9:49am | 
 
 
  
   
   
   I remember that story as well, I think if you are sending your kid to a private school then there is an expectation that you pay the fees/donations etc - otherwise why should everyone else have to subsidise your child. 
  If she didn't want to pay then she should have sent her kid to state school where its not compulsory to pay the donation. Still schools can't run on nothing.  
    
   
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     Posted: 11 June 2010 at 10:30am | 
 
 
  
   
   
   My mum worked at a private primary school and i believe it was about $14K per child (it was cheaper for any extra kids in the family) plus uniform and stationery. most kids did after school activities (sports, music, a language etc) through the school so that was even more
 
the biggest problem with kids that went to that school was there was no college like it for them (here primary is year 1-8 and college year 9-13) so in looking at schools you may want to look at what ages that they do and what school your child (children) can go to for high school (college)    
    
   
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     Posted: 11 June 2010 at 1:25pm | 
 
 
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   I too have wndered about this and we aren't even trying yet Thats a whole other story. If you can check out schools websites they might have fees ifo on them thats what i did and give you something to comapre them too as well.
 
 On the whole donation front yeah they aren't meant to be compulsory at a public school anyway but i remember my high school refusing to sign leaving certificates if they hadn't been paid.
    
   
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     Posted: 21 June 2010 at 12:39am | 
 
 
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   Sorry I didn't see this sooner. Ours go to public, it's $30 donation for one child, or $50 for family (no limit) per year (incl swimming), no fees, no uniform, stationery for yr0-2 is approx $45, yr3-4 is approx $60, not sure about the older years yet. Excursions, activities etc are approx $20 per child per term. Camps are more. Friends who have their kids at local catholic school have found their trips etc cost a lot more because the school assumes the parents are on higher incomes. 
    
   
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     Posted: 21 June 2010 at 10:56am | 
 
 
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   Holy cow re some of the fees/donations!
 
 We plan to try homeschooling. The cost of going to school + all the extras is just one of the many reasons.
 
 I don't understand how some parents afford the costs, especially if they are (for whatever reason) on one or limited income.
 
 ETA I also think it is rude over the whole donation vs fee thing. If you have to pay it then it is a fee.
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     Posted: 21 June 2010 at 12:29pm | 
 
 
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   Well one twist on the donation thing is I'm pretty sure that if it's a donation then it's tax deductible. If it's a fee it's not so some schools might label it as a donation for the benefit of the parents.
 
    
   
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     Posted: 21 June 2010 at 4:38pm | 
 
 
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   Yep to the tax deductible, I think you can get about a third of it back if you can be bothered filing for it. We don't for our unicef/Spca ap's but I guess I should! & re Homeschooling, I was homeschooled for awhile & from memory it was actually quite costly. 
    
   
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