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   jack_&_charli  
   
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     Topic: im loosing it!     Posted: 28 July 2008 at 3:39pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   i'm so darn clucky i'm starting to loose my mind!    
 
was watching a video someone on here posted, then wandered around youtube looking at other new babies..........the second one i watched i started crying   
i've been clucky over babies for ages, but not to the point where i've actually cried over it!!   i'm so saddened that i won't be having anymore,  DH is set on just 2........     
my sister won't be having kids at any time soon and my SIL has just moved to oz to TTC#2 so there's no one around me to 'satisfy my bub craving'
 i know there's other ladies here that are the same, just wanted to whinge       
    
   
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     Posted: 28 July 2008 at 4:24pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   awwww, big hugs!  Blimmen hormones have a lot to answer for I reckon!!  I would have 4 but I was pushing it to get 3 lol.   
    
   
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     Posted: 28 July 2008 at 6:04pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   Can you try and have an accident??   
I am at the moment and working out number 3 at the moment. Have the same DH set on 2 but I want 3. But I have a few issues to work out like where I am going to have the baby. 
    
   
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     I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived!
     
   
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     Posted: 28 July 2008 at 9:55pm | 
 
 
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   aww vanessa, can he not see how much you want another? but where would you put it anyway, you dont have enough rooms!
    
   
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     Posted: 28 July 2008 at 10:19pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   Awww hun become a plunket nurse that really does satisfy your cravings lol SOme days I am so clucky my next baby is already named lol 
    
   
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     Posted: 29 July 2008 at 12:00am | 
 
 
  
   
   
   Aw i can seriously relate.
 
Having just gotten rid of our last official piece of baby gear - the cot. I was like "bye bye baby stuff, no more babies" .... lol cos of course - the vasectomy doesn't mean that (well actually for me it didn't did it!) lol   
    
   
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     Posted: 29 July 2008 at 8:09am | 
 
 
  
   
   
   Believe it or not, its my DH that is really clucky!  He was watching Knocked up the other night and got into bed and said to me:
 
"I really want another baby, now"
 WTF?!  Even I am not that clucky (well, maybe a little bit)!     
    
   
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     Posted: 29 July 2008 at 8:48am | 
 
 
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   I know what you mean.  We were supposed to TTC #2 last December but stuff happened and we decided to put it off till September and now we've put it off again until Christmas.  I am so clucky sometimes I could cry (and I don't even need to see pics/videos of babies to set me off).  What makes it worse for me now is Michaela keeps asking for a baby (and is not satisfied with her dolls) and DH really wants another baby now too.  The wait is excrutiating.
    
   
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     Posted: 29 July 2008 at 9:09am | 
 
 
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   Charlotte wants a baby "Max"  (after hanging out in Auckland last weekend).  I could have taken Max home, he is soooo snuggly!
    
   
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     Posted: 29 July 2008 at 9:27am | 
 
 
  
   
   
   
  mum2paris wrote:
  Aw i can seriously relate.
 
 Having just gotten rid of our last official piece of baby gear - the cot. I was like "bye bye baby stuff, no more babies" |   
i knew you would relate janine...i thought of you as i wrote my post    
we just sold our cot last weekend too and i had a wee cry in the bathroom.......DH doesn't know how upset i am over it and i won't tell him.   there's no point, he'll just think i'm silly and he won't change his mind, so what's the point.
 robyn you are right, we have no room.....but houses can be sold      i've thought about where we would put another baby and jack's room is big enough for 2 kids so whichever kids are the same sex, they can share   
but DH is all ' we'd have to buy a new car, we can't afford the one's we've got let alone another one, you stress out with 2 sometimes what happens with 3'   ra ra ra blah blah blah!!   
i think i really need to stop looking in the photo gallery and stop going to the mall during the day when all the prams are out and about   
    
   
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     Posted: 29 July 2008 at 9:34am | 
 
 
  
   
   
   while i was watching a video yesterday of a bub 'cooing etc'   jack was there and i asked him if mummy should have another baby....he said 'yes, you can have that one mummy'       pointing to the one in the video   lol
     
   
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     Posted: 29 July 2008 at 11:36am | 
 
 
  
   
   
   i can sorta relate to this but the other way round......i didnt want kids for atleast 5+ years but DH was desperate for kids and id always find myself at his friends and familys house while he played with their children and after some time it would break my heart knowing how much he wanted some of his own..........so i had my daughter........about 11 months later i was pregnant again-(oops).......for me this is it....2 is enough for me-the ideal number i ever wanted......but DH is already hinting on number 3! ..........................im adamant this is it but at the back of my mind i think of DH and know that this is both our lives........and know that just maybe........he will change my mind....in a good couple of years....maybe......  
  
just to add....before i got pregnant i was clucky too,even my horrible experience with my first pregnancy didnt put me off.....it wasnt till i got pregnant now that i think maybe i need to become a midwife......lol  
  
goodluck to you and hope by some miracle your DH comes around for you.....  
    
   
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