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    Posted: 06 November 2009 at 10:06pm
Well as the title says, today is one year on from my first mc. And sunday would have been the due date of my second mc.

I feel very reflective today about what could have been and what will be instead. Luckily i have been blessed again with a beautiful bub who i hope makes it into this world safely.

I guess the point of this post is to reflect how a year changes everything, things have gotten easier but i still think of my angels most days. And to say thankyou for the support that this forum offers, either directly or not, thankyou for the pm's of strangers that have been through the same and offered kind words, it helped massively.

Fly free beautiful sproglett and baby Bo.

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Mum to two amazing boys!
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thanks for your beautifully worded post. i feel a bit less crazy for still thinking of my angel baby most days....and it has only been 3 months. everyone (who has not been through m/c) has long forgotten about it and the odd insensitive remarks still have the power to upset me and bring it all back.

hugs to you and i agree....without these forums things would have been even harder still
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Hey guys, i too am in the same boat, having had one m/c april last year and another sept last year. it took a long time for me to heal emotionally and my body needed a rest. Now we are expecting again and it is such a roller coaster! We have not had the pleasure of a pregnancy which has gone past 12weeks so praying for this one.
i know what mean about comments too, people have come up to me, rubbed my tummy and asked when im going to have babies. they are ignorant so i dont blame them but i wish that i could shout form the rooftops that i tired already and it didnt work, confident this one will.

i do think about it a lot, it is a lot to go thru and its wierd that the world keeps turning and ppl still have babies around you. its a strange feeling.

time does have the ability to heal
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