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Jacindarella View Drop Down
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    Posted: 30 January 2010 at 11:11am
Hi all,

I'm feeling very sad and sorry for myself.

I have just had a 2nd D&C in a month due to infection and retained product... I'm in alot of pain, the first one was no where near this painful!!
I feel sick from the Antibiotics and I can't sleep. All I do is cry and I want my baby back!
All I can think about is the damage that could have been cause.. I'm terrified I won't be able to have children! Or I will have to go through all this again!

I'm a complete mess

I'm not really sure why I'm posting.. I think I just need a rant.

Thanks for listening.
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Hugs J

I'm sure it will all ok once everything has settled down, doesn't help you feel any better right now though.
You are allowed to be complete mess after all you've been through - don't ever feel guilty for that!!
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I feel for you, if your in that much pain maby worth a phone call to your doctor when I had my D&C they told me if there was any pain worse than a period cramp to call, I must admit it got quite bad the 2nd night after and I did call the health line and they were great,
I hope you feel better soon ox

Hello Littlestar how are you? baby 4 months already gosh its flown I have just been given the all clear to stat trying again so very excited!!!


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Thank you ladies for your messages!

Wishing you a sticky bub soon Brilee!!

I'm feeling a little better.. still a wee bit sore.

My head is still not in the best place though.. I'm still very worried.

Has anyone else had 4 D&C's and still been able to have a baby? I stupidly googled to find some hope and ended up scaring myself more!



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Stay away from Google!!!!!
It will just confuse and scare you,
I know this is hard but take each day as it comes Live today Look Foward to tomorrow,
All the best and lots of love


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Stay well away from Google!! Although that being said it was google that helped me find ohbaby during my MC (I was trying in vain to find a site that would say there was still hope for my little bean)
I don't know much about DnCs so can't offer any advice in that department - but there must be other ladies on here who have had more than one. Could you have a chat with your Dr about what this all means in your situation?

You are allowed to grieve and cry and be as messed up as you need to - I never realised just how strong a bond you can form with your bean in such a short time.

Brilee - YAY - very excited for you!

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