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myfullhouse
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Topic: how do you dispose of Posted: 07 December 2009 at 9:52pm |
your disposables, especially when you are at someone else's house?
I use cloth so obviously take them home, I suppose I find it strange that others don't take their disposables home, they always want to leave them at my place. I also find it strange that they don't 'empty' dirty nappies into the loo before they bundle them up and throw them out. And the thing that gets to me the most is that they put them in people's kitchen rubbish bin, wouldn't that be like me putting used toilet paper in there? Personally I find it really unhygenic. Once when the il's were visiting with my nephew I found they had left a dirty nappy on my kitchen bench!  And they used to use their kitchen table as a change table!
I don't mean to offend/upset anyone, but I just can't understand it. Maybe I am the one with the problem since so many people seem to do it
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Posted: 07 December 2009 at 9:54pm |
even when i used disposables i would take them with me. I dont understand it either!
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Posted: 07 December 2009 at 10:07pm |
I can't say where I leave my nappies, since I don't have a bum to change yet, but... On your kitchen bench?! That is foul
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Posted: 07 December 2009 at 10:08pm |
i normally use cloth and take them home with me but even when we use disposables i take them home except when im at a friends house who uses disposables all the time then i take it out to their big rubbish bin outside. Same as when im at my mums house, i take it out to the outside bin. Who wants a stinky nappy in their kitchen where you prepare food  I think it is gross to put it in the kitchen bin.
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Posted: 07 December 2009 at 10:19pm |
When I'm using throw-aways I take a couple of magic blue bags with me and seal the used ones up and put them back in my handbag until I get to the car, where they get tranferred into my car's junk bag, which goes straight in the bin when I get home.
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Posted: 07 December 2009 at 10:26pm |
Where do I put them ? in a plastic bag , that goes in my boot , that goes in a black sac outside .
But I usually use cloth , so they go into a bag, into my baby bag and into the wash (and onto the line *cough* drier *cough* )
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Posted: 07 December 2009 at 10:29pm |
maybe it's just the people I know or am related to that put them in the kitchen bin then!
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Posted: 07 December 2009 at 10:36pm |
I don't understand it either - We use cloth and haven't used disposables since she was a newbie but even then I would never expect someone else to dispose of them.
I find it quite foul that some people don't empty the 'contents' into the loo either
The worst experience I've had is in a cafe I used to work in, a father changed his sons nappy in the corner of the dining room and if that wasn't bad enough, as I was walking past, he tried to hand the used nappy to me  Thankfully we didn't dispose of used nappies and I told him as much.
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Posted: 07 December 2009 at 10:39pm |
When I was using sposies in the early days (legs too skinny for the cloth we had), if we were out I would always ask first (as to whether I could ditch it and where) and thus avoid any problems - I had those blue bags too so if it was a no go for leaving it behind, I'd bag it and take it home.
As for emptying the contents out, I'm assuming we are talking about the poo of babies who are eating and not breastfed-only baby poo
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Posted: 07 December 2009 at 11:05pm |
I'm uing cloth so it comes home with us. But when I am using disposables I always ask if they have a bin I can put into. I would nover just biff poop into there kitchen rubbish. And yeah, bf'd baby poop isn't coming out of a nappy without a fight.
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Posted: 07 December 2009 at 11:09pm |
When we're out and about, I take them home. They go straight into the kitchen bin in nice blue smelly bags that dont let the poo smell out :D We dont have an outside bin, It all goes into the bin by my washing machine (which is in the back of the kitchen) and then the bag is emptied every 2nd day.. reminds me, rubbish night tonight! I dont think theres anything wrong with putting them in the bin in there as long as they're in a bag to get rid of odours and the bin is emptied frequently.
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Posted: 08 December 2009 at 12:54am |
I remember hosting a coffee group when C was still tiny and someone left a dirty nappy in our bathroom bin for me to find later that night  EXTRA gross as we were living in an apartment at the time with a RUBBISH CHUTE and the lady who did it lived in the same condo so she should have known better!
We use sposies and if we're at friends' places I always ask where I can change C (usually in a spare room if they don't have kids of their own) and where they'd like me to put the used nappy - which is always tied up in one of those "nice" smelling nappy bags! I would never just leave one in someone's kitchen bin without saying anything. And definitely not on the kitchen bench!
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Posted: 08 December 2009 at 4:10am |
We have the rule that people take them home.
We use cloth nappies but most of our friends are using sposies. I figure that i don't leave stinky nappies at their houses so why should I deal with their stinky nappies at mine - especially when we don't have our own to deal with in that respect!
And most people that use disposables don't flush poos in the toilet i think. I have only met one that does in all my time - even though the packs do actually recommend it
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Posted: 08 December 2009 at 7:56am |
Yea but you try scraping some of the mess out of a sposie to flush *puke*
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Posted: 08 December 2009 at 8:10am |
I don't have a problem with people putting sposies in my bin (which is in my kitchen), they are normally wrapped up and the bin has a lid on it and is emptied frequently. If a kid has done a real stinky one then most of my friends would automatically go stick it in the wheelie bin outside instead, I wouldn't expect them to take a really foul nappy home with them  with them stinking out their nappy bag and car, that is even grosser and unnecessary when we have a bin right here.
If I use sposies when out I mostly take them home, cos I have the wet bag with me for the cloth ones so it's not hassle to parcel up a sposie and take it home, but sometimes if I'm somewhere where they also use sposies I will just ask if I can chuck it in their bin.
I'm guilty of not always emptying out sposies as well, Spencer mostly does ones that I have to rinse off the cloth nappies so no way would I get them off the sposies, but if it is a rolly offy then I tip it in the loo.
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Posted: 08 December 2009 at 8:16am |
We use sposies at night for the boys and when we go to the bach, I always try and take as much off the nappy as possible and flush it rather than having it stink out the bin. This is obviously alot easier with Jack than it is with Ben.
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Posted: 08 December 2009 at 8:31am |
i never empty E's nappies..partly cause he always has soft nappies adn always has but also cause i just don't really.. habit i guess..never did it at work and changed a million there so guess i got in the habit?
I always ask at someone else's house..and the doctor nearly made me take it home.. but yeah i would much rather they put it in our nappy bin and leave it at my house than travel all the way home with that smell in their car:(
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Posted: 08 December 2009 at 9:48am |
I always take nappies home with me unless they offer their rubbish bin. Don't empty contents down the toilet either probably cos you can't when they are little as BF poo is so squishy and soaks into the nappy  so you just get use to rolling them up in a bundle. Habit I guess.
I don't mind others leaving their dirty nappies here as they all just go in the big bin outside.
What I do have an issue with is people who change their kids nappy right where people are eating  i.e on the dining room floor. I always take Corban to the bathroom at other peoples houses (with the exception of coffee group) and change him on the floor.
The other day I was at a playgroup and was sitting on the floor feeding Corban and this lady changed her baby's pooey nappy right beside me on the side Corban was feeding, he may be a baby but he can still smell and that was enough to put anyone off there lunch!
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Posted: 08 December 2009 at 10:05am |
When my friend stayed with her baby she used nappy bags, and asked me if it was ok to put them in the bin first, of course it was ok that's what the rubbish bin is for, I'd be more disgusted in her having to carry a days worth of nappies home in the car for 8 hours yuck .
That's revolting Mrs_B, there's a reason why the toilet and the kitchen are at least 2 doors away from each other, changing nappies should be anywhere near where you eat.
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Posted: 08 December 2009 at 10:49am |
Usually I will just put DS' disposable in one of those nappy sacks and take it home because I don't like to assume that my host wants a used nappy in their bin.
Used nappies go into our outside bin or into the kitchen bin which is emptied daily and nowhere near any food handling surfaces.
I can't imagine scraping my son's soft poop out of his disposable into the loo. For one, I'd need some kind of sh!t stick for that which seems really unhygienic. Plus all that extra handling is not worth thinking about... yuck.
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