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   MissCandice  
   
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     Topic: How long? Possibly TMI     Posted: 29 January 2008 at 1:48pm | 
 
 
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   Untill you stop bleeding after a miscarriage..
 
 Its been 5 weeks, and although its not bright red blood, well not all the time, im still bleeding.
 Should i go see the doc or is this normal?
    
   
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     Posted: 29 January 2008 at 2:27pm | 
 
 
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   i was told by my doctor that if i was still bleeding 7 days after the start of a miscarriage to go back and see them, I think you should be going to your doctor, and getting a scan done to make sure that everything has gone, cos sometimes bleeding for that long can mean not everything has left your body.
 
 I am sorry to hear you are going through this
    
   
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     Posted: 29 January 2008 at 2:29pm | 
 
 
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   Oh crap, I didn't realise this had happened. Really sorry to hear it Kandice.
    
   
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     Posted: 29 January 2008 at 2:33pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   I would be going back to the dr 5 weeks is a long time to bleed. 
    
   
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     Posted: 29 January 2008 at 5:45pm | 
 
 
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   My doctor told me to come back if I was still bleeding after two weeks.
    
   
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     Posted: 29 January 2008 at 6:13pm | 
 
 
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   I bled for 2 weeks then had a late period and another 2 weeks of bleeding with that. That all seemed with the range of normal in my Doctor's opinion. IMO 5 weeks is far too long. Hope you're keeping up your iron intake too.
    
   
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     Posted: 30 January 2008 at 9:25am | 
 
 
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   Thanks guys, have made an appointment for the doc this afternoon.
 
 I thought 5 weeks was too long too but then i think maybe its normal il just wait another week.. 
 
 Thanks nikkiwhyte.. Its really hard when i wake up and see Kylahs smiling wee face, I wonder what he/she would have looked like.
    
   
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     Posted: 30 January 2008 at 9:33am | 
 
 
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   I just always like to think that they went back up to the 'pool of babies' and come down to another person at a different time... or maybe back to you?
 
 Anyway, that helped me as silly as it sounds!
    
   
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     Posted: 30 January 2008 at 12:59pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
     Kandice, I'm so sorry this has happened. I hope the dr is able to sort things out for you    
    
   
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     Posted: 30 January 2008 at 4:40pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   kandice i'm so sorry hun!!!  i hope it went ok at the drs??     
    
   
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     Posted: 30 January 2008 at 4:45pm | 
 
 
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   How did it go, Kandice??
    
   
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     Posted: 31 January 2008 at 9:00am | 
 
 
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   hey kandice - did the doctor give you any answers?
    
   
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     Posted: 14 February 2008 at 11:06am | 
 
 
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   Sorry guys, i have just been trying to soldier on through.. they said i had to go for a scan to see if any of the pregnancy was retained. Dont that and they couldnt see anything. It has stopped now so hopefully its all ok. 
 
 Is it normal to feel jelous at pregnant woman because im not? Sometimes i just want to cry!
    
   
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     Posted: 14 February 2008 at 11:19am | 
 
 
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   Hey Kandice, It is normal to feel jealous, its all part of the grieving process, I was walking down the street the other day and meet someone who is due the day before i was due to have my bubs in March this year...and as i walked away i just cried.
 
 I am sorry you have had to go through this, we are all here, and please pm if you need to just vent or anything
    
   
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     Posted: 14 February 2008 at 12:18pm | 
 
 
  
   
   
   
  nikkiwhyte wrote:
  I just always like to think that they went back up to the 'pool of babies' and come down to another person at a different time... or maybe back to you?
 
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I kinda think the same thing, I wasn't ready for Fay in my 20s so she went back to Babyland until I was, nice thought.
 Kandice sorry to hear this.   
    
   
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     Posted: 14 February 2008 at 12:23pm | 
 
 
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   Im thinking the same, as Kylah was born the day i was due so she would have only just been 1, and i dont think we were quite ready for no2 so soon.
 
 I think everything happens for a reason, so there must have been a reason for this one to leave us.
    
   
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