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MyPeas
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Posted: 27 October 2010 at 4:53pm |
I probably should but haven't really set a budget for presents but am going for quality items. DD won't really understand anything this year as she'll only be one so it's probably more for me than anything.
For her birthday she is getting a metal framed paddling pool and a silver bracelet which I'm going to get engraved plus a toy or book.
For christmas she is getting a junior leather look bean bag plus probably some wooden blocks and one other thing.
I've also started what I hope to be a tradition and have brought her a christmas ornament personalised with her name and the year for both last year and this year and also a pregnancy one for this year for our next wee girl.
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AandCsmum
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Posted: 27 October 2010 at 5:31pm |
I'm amazed at how much people set out to spend....
I haven't set a specific budget at all except for other people that is $20 each.
The kids so far I have got
A: Pink Wii remotes $20
C: Remote Cars car $9, laundry basket (cars) $9, three wheeled scooter $39. I didnt intend to spend that much on that either.
I am going to get A a couple more little things but do not want to spend much. Hmmm $60 that added up fast LOL
Both their birthdays are after Xmas.
We are thinking of getting a walled tramp to replace our little one, but hate the price of them.
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james
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Posted: 27 October 2010 at 6:21pm |
i have spent 49.99 each on both boys i got tonka romate controll cars half price at werehouse so that will do them - uslly it would be about 100 each but we are on hoiladay this year so thats there main pressy
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Posted: 27 October 2010 at 7:51pm |
I think i'm abit out of control with pressie buying... but i just love buying things for people!! This year DD is getting a painting easel and wooden switch car track, i have laybyed through the wooden toy box website and i have also brought her a balance bike but i think she will be too small for it , so she will have to get it during the year. For her bday on the 29th of Dec she is getting a tramp!!! and then she just gets books and puzzles and clothes, but i must stop buying things!!!!!
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Posted: 27 October 2010 at 9:15pm |
I spent way to much on DS last Christmas, well not so much spent as I NEVER pay full price and what I spent was within budget but he had so much stuff that one gift was completely overlooked and in the end I put it away and he'll get it this Christmas!
I tried to be more restrained for his birthday but he does end up with about 10 presents costing around £100 or so but actual retail price would be about double that.
His birthday and Xmas are 6mths apart and he doesnt get toys during the year so I find he's usually ready for another developmental stage by the time one or the other rolls around.
For Christmas this year we will be in NZ (instead of the UK) so I have a few things I brought for him during the year before we knew we were coming over that I will save for when we get back and have a late Christmas with SIL, he's got a balance bike (half price at least, $30), an ELC Pirate Ship (75% off $20), Megadoodle (half price $20) and a couple of puzzles at 75% off maybe total $20, all up about $100 but again retail price so much higher.
Will get him his Santa stocking bits n bobs in NZ and maybe one present to unwrap on the day, he'll be so busy with all the fun stuff to do and new people to meet he'll not even notice his gifts I dare say!
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Posted: 27 October 2010 at 9:31pm |
I clearly spend waaaay too much on DD - you guys are making me feel embarassed
I don't set out to spend any set amount. DD's birthday is just before Christmas (15 days to be exact) and I buy all her birthday, christmas and santa presents during the year on sale and stash them away. She is getting a trike, books and puzzles plus a lunchbox for her birthday, a fisher price little people fairy princess castle plus more books and mike the mower from me for christmas and then a thomas train set and a new paddling pool from santa. Plus there are her stocking presents (wee things like a harmonica, a hairbrush, notebook and stickers) and various items of new clothing and a couple of little people figures. I might have more stashed in the cupboard but thats all I can remember
I try and buy stuff thats going to be played with for the whole rest of the year because she won't get anything much till next December since her birthday and christmas are so close together. Must cut back next year!
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Posted: 28 October 2010 at 12:52am |
Hmm well I don't think we will be spending that much on DS...so far we have gotten him wooden blocks, a little gardening set and some musical instruments. Some is birthday and some is Christmas. Will also get him a ride on toy plus some things for his stocking but not sure what that will be yet.
And that is it haha poor deprived child....not.
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Posted: 28 October 2010 at 2:48am |
Our budget is normally around $100 for gifts. This year we'll be under for DS1 and waaay under for DS2.
DS2 will have so many hand me downs that there is very little he will need. So the gift we do get will be a token thing.
It's the grandparents we have to worry about!! For two different reasons:
1) The in-laws generally want to spend the same amount on each child, only they have one daughter with VERY high standards and expectations (don't get me started), so that bumps up the amount. I have pleaded with them to forget about "matching" for our kids - it's really the thought that counts.
2) My mother is a bit of a "buy your love" type person, so I can see her being excessive. The crazy thing is that Jackson ADORES her and it had nothing to do with presents. I wish she'd see that and not buy him stuff all the time. I am seriously hoping she doesn't go crazy this year.
The number of toys in our house is already starting to stress me out. Most are gifts, or things I have got off TradeMe, but man do they start to add up in terms of volume. Tonight I have gone through and sorted out a bag of stuff to give away. Trying to think of a good cause, but they'll probably just get dropped off at the Sallies.
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Posted: 28 October 2010 at 9:48am |
I sorted through our ds presents the other night, there is 13 things for xmas and around the same for his bday in Jan,and I still want to get him a remote control Thomas. He is getting one main present for each, for xmas he is getting a trike and for bday he is getting a battery operated ride on.
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Posted: 28 October 2010 at 11:27am |
zoeymil wrote:
I think i'm abit out of control with pressie buying... but i just love buying things for people!! |
I'm the same - I especially love buying presents for the kids! and maybe some people would say we spend too much or be surprised at what we spend, but the way I see it is it's only a couple of days a year, my children aren't spoilt everyday, so I don't see the harm... we aren't buying more than we can afford so we're not going into debt for xmas for anything  ...
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Posted: 28 October 2010 at 2:50pm |
Normally $100 for birthdays because that's their day, and $50 for Christmas. We're trying to make the best thing about Christmas more the camping trip though, so we spent too much on a family tent this year, but their actual Christmas prezzy was the tramp. Back to the budget next year.
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Posted: 28 October 2010 at 4:34pm |
$50 if we can for each kid, yet this year we decided to get them a tramp which was joint with my parents and the IL's, so we spent $300 of our money - good investment though.
I too can't believe how much people spend. I know it'll get more expensive when the kids are older but for now I want to enjoy the cheaper stuff. Also, I kind of think, it's just stuff at the end of the day. I've had a huge priority shift since I started packing our house up after the Chch earthquake (house not going to fall down, but will have to move next year (hopefully) to get it fixed).
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Posted: 28 October 2010 at 6:04pm |
Dp and i have spent WAY to much!! We didnt have a budget though and brought throughout the year. I think all of DD's xmas presents came to approx $300 and her birthday in Jan is going to be close to $700 (one gift was $400 & DP wants to get her a pandora ontop of the few things we got throughout the year). I was going through what mum & dad have got her and if it wasnt for the $400 pedal car they would easily out do us. DP is a big spender though so im not suprised.
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Posted: 28 October 2010 at 6:19pm |
I am trying to keep it reasonable this year!! My kids get so much stuff being that they are the only kids in the family. It is really hard to buy for the younger 2 since we have so many hand me downs, we already have bikes and blocks and a trampoline etc from older brother so that kind of stuff is out. I love christmas!!
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Posted: 29 October 2010 at 10:25pm |
Iv already bought all DD's christmas pressies , I did a layby in aug and fully paid it off a few weeks ago which was just over $200 , i also bought her a $30 book today to add to that and spent $60 today on clothes , socks, sunglasses for her so will either give her that now or save it for christmas , ill see.
Dp has a 5yr old daugter and my DD isnt his biolgical daughter so we have decided that i will buy majority of my DD's pressies and one thing for his DD and he will buy majority of his DD's things and one thing for my DD , we have decided to spend the same amount on both so its fair , at this age the pressies are from Santa to them anyway so makes no difference to them .
Im always spending money on Amelia , shes always dressed nicely and has alot of toys but i am missing out on alot lately ,I have hardly any clothes , makeup , Underware etc etc and its the same for my DP so me and DP have been saving a bit lately and this weekend we are both going on a little spending spree and spending some well earned money on ourselves , only rule , no buying for the kids!!! i cant wait !!!!   
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Posted: 29 October 2010 at 10:47pm |
Do you include stocking fillers as part of your christmas gift budget or are they additional?
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Posted: 30 October 2010 at 8:50am |
For us it is all inclusive. So roughly $100 per kid on our presents, $50 for stocking and new outfit for the day which is a present. Sometimes a bit more on the outfit especially now with DD being 14 so hers comes into the $100 spend as well. But with the the 14yr old sometimes we go over to $200 instead of the set $150 as her wishes are more expensive. Stocking consists of 1 present and a lot of $2 stuff and lollies etc. This year since we are going camping we are doing jacks, knuckle bones, card games, crafty things so they have stuff to do at night when we are chilling out with a drink. And a small lantern for their tent room. Not sure if that will be the $2 one or the $10 one from the warehouse yet but it is essential camping stuff so I may spend more for it to last and be brighter.
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Posted: 30 October 2010 at 12:09pm |
We spend $10-15 on stockings & will put in play-doh, hot wheel car, chocolate coins, lollies & anything else small we see.
So far we have spent $1000 on the kids & have a few things to get. We don't buy much through the yr for them & we pay cash so we are not buying what we can not afford.
We are spending nearly $100 more on DS1 than on DS3 but they are all get the same amount of presents.
We did not have a budget this yr & next yr I will buy more during the yr & put away so am not really going to do a budget. I did 2 big laybys that were to be paid off just before xmas but DH got his pay rise & back pay so I have cleared them now.
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Posted: 30 October 2010 at 7:25pm |
We are not spending much for Christmas I have already got a little paddling pool and a cute winnie the pooh outfit and I will probably only add a couple of smaller things. For her birthday I will spend a little bit more we have decided we are going to get her a bike and a braclet (something to keep being her first!). Oh and I got given a scrapbook type photo album that I will do for her with baby photos another special thing to keep that I think I might do for all my children!
We have huge families on both sides and she is the first grandchild on my parents side so she is going to get spoilt! We have decided to not go overboard and to keep it in perspective we want Belle to grow up not expecting big presents for either Christmas and for her Birthday and to have more of a focus on spending time with family and giving of gifts to others 
Plus for her first we are going to have a big party, more for us than for her and I would rather put money into that, celebrating with everyone on our babies first birthday!
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Posted: 30 October 2010 at 8:43pm |
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Wow i cant believe how much people spend on there kids  |
The way I look at it is this is not a dress rehearsal. I only have 1 chance to make my kids childhood the most magical it can be. Sure you don't need money to make their birthdays and Christmas special but it doesn't hurt either.
My children aren't spoilt, they're definitely indulged but they're not spoilt and I figure that if we have the money why not spend it on them. It makes me happy.
Having said that I've cut out a lot from our "special occasion" celebrations so we can spend more on the kids gifts. Last year at Christmas we didn't buy paper napkins, christmas crackers or other novelty items that add up at the checkout, we ate a roast chicken instead of a turkey and wouldn't have had a ham if my MIL hadn't bought one for us, DH and I didn't even buy each other gifts last year and this year we've given ourselves a very slim budget for each others gifts. We've decided birthday parties with friends are only going to happen on the big years (1, 5, 10, 13 & 16) and on interceding years we're going to have a family day with maybe 1 best friend allowed to join in.
Michaela's 4th birthday was done on a very tight budget this year and I was worried what she'd think of it - our budget didn't stretch to a party but DH took the day off work and we had a fun family day that she and I planned together doing things she wanted to do and we made a huge fuss of her. She says it was her best birthday ever (it probably helps she's too young to remember previous ones ).
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