I’m ready to talk.

I'm glad you're with someone nice now. There is hope.

You ex sounded so much like my DS's father. I'll never forget being driven round on Xmas eve being yelled at and having water thrown at me if I wasn't paying attention to what he was saying and then being dumped on my friends doorstep at midnight with no purse or phone. Lucky my friend were so understanding. I left my ex when I was ten weeks pregnant with DS and have never looked back.

I am now with someone wonderful too and have another beautiful baby.

I've just found this again.

I am the original poster, I guess my username will come up when I post this.

Just to update.

The dad in this story, hooked up with the step-sister in this story and tried to get full custody of my son, on a without notice basis through a judge. They failed, he abused her, the police were involved, and I subsequently won full custody.   He disappeared from my son's life in November 2013 without a word, and left my son miserable and confused and hurt.

I know they both in the past have read these forums to try and dig up dirt on me

So, if you're reading this *waves* See this here > <   This is how many f**ks I give.     SHAME ON YOU BOTH. And also, GOOD JOB, and HAHA.

I hope it was worth it, completely ruining my seven year old's world. Luckily that sweet little boy has me eh?   As he always has done.

That's right, he's seven now.   I hope you felt like a piece of sh*t on his birthday when you failed to contact him, and he was devastated. Same with Christmas.

By the way, I'm waiting, and I'm armed. Not with weapons, but with myself. The real, strong, confident, amazing 30 year old woman that you threw into a pit of hell. Guess what, I crawled out of that pit and I'm stronger that the pair of you combined.