Would love to hear from people who have had bad tears from giving birth.
When were things back to normal again? Eg sitting comfortably, going to the loo, riding a bike...(or your partner

) How long is normal?
It's been 18 months since the birth and 11 months since a minor surgery to help fix things, and things still aren't right...which makes TTC for #2 impossible at the moment!
Is there anyone else out there who took awhile to heal? Did it get better in the end?