MC + a sense of knowing

in hindsight I did.. though we didn't find out till 12 week scan and both times it's really affected me..wish i could have moved on quicker..

i realised when preg with Ethan that I felt a lot more positive even though i was terrified and I knew it would be ok.

thanks..yeah second one i was really pos....finally...and then it ended in mc..due same time as first one!:( I would never wait till 12 weeks again i just couldn't do it.. as i had no symptoms no spotting nothing with first one..

so hard when you have heard heartbeat though (we never did)...hugs to you! :(

I was fine right after second one but about two weeks later i really hit me...

Yeah I did with both of mine.

When I went to the docs with my ectopic I knew something wasn't right ever since we got a positive and I didn't want to get a MW etc and even though i was told I was just having a mc I knew it was worse than that.

2nd time I just knew it wasn't good from the start, didn't get my hopes up

Yes I knew it wasn't right. I had my normal leading up to af spotting before the bfp so was very surprised to see the 2 lines. Then when I did another test the next day the line was lighter, then barely there the next day. I started spotting even more and properly bleeding 5 days after getting the bfp. I couldn't even begin to imagine how painful it must be, being further along though or like some of you, finding out at the 12 wk scan. Just heartbreaking

I have also moved on quickly - but then again I am the type of person that just gets on with things. I just hope it doesn't take us too long to fall pg again.

I knew. I remember saying to my friend that I just dont see myself holding a baby at the end of the pregnancy and that was right after i got a BFP, I just wasnt as excited or sure. I just kind of felt quite empty and detached from it all.

Oh, sorry to hear this has happened Peanut.  I also felt that.  I almost wonder if I "willed" it somehow.  I remember saying before I fell pregnant that I bet I miscarry next time and did.  When I fell pregnant with James I "knew" it was ok and I am pretty sure that next time will be too.  Weird huh?

 

I also moved on really fast too.  Didnt feel like I lost a baby. Just lost a pregnancy.

Hmm. When I first found out, I was REALLY excited and happy. The pregnancy tests were faint which kinda wierded me out, but I was really happy.

Until about 61/2 weeks. Then I just wasn't excited or happy at all. Except for sore boobs, I didn't have any symptoms and just had a terrible nervous feeling.

I hadn't planned on having a 12 week scan, but suddenly I knew I had to have one. I scheduled it and then 3 days before I started to spot. Turns out the baby stopped growing at 61/2 weeks.

The whole way through I kept telling myself that I was being silly, but I knew. I feel more calm this time, but I don't think I'll be excited until the 12 week scan.

I knew. I just knew it! My DH and even the Dr.'s thought I was crazy. Of course I had an IUD so I knew I was at high risk for a m/c. My DH and the Dr.'s thought I was being paranoid. One day I just felt SO MUCH better. It was insane. Then my boobs stopped hurting, I basically had no symptoms. So then I ordered a fetal doppler online, thinking ok, I'll get that and find the HB and maybe I am being paranoid. It came in the mail, no HB, which at 10 weeks I know I would have heard it b/c I heard it then with my first 3.

So I called and asked for an u/s. They said no, so I lied and said I was spotting to get one. Sure enough, at my u/s it showed the baby had stopped growing at 8 weeks - exactly when I started to feel better. (I was 10 weeks)

It's hard to tell with mine, I went to get the pg confirmed at the docs and had a negative test there so the doc did hcg tests, when the result came back as only 30 I was hoping all would turn out well but really didn't see how it could, 2 days later I had more hcg done and it had only risen to 42 so I was pretty resigned to the fact that it just wasn't going to happen. I'm not sure if those feelings would have been there had I not had the hcg tests done. I did however feel different and more positive when pregnant with Kyle and although scared I never really thought anything would go wrong (if that makes sense).
I think the worst thing about my mc was knowing that things weren't right and weren't going to be right but the waiting and the testing and the scanning etc that had to be done.

I do sometimes wonder what if, but having said that the due date and also the anniversary of when I lost the baby have both passed without causing me any real upset.

I had a very strong sense about it. Although I had a 6 week scan with heartbeat and all there were many things that did not feel right to me. Especially the lack of symptoms and simply not feeling pregnant. And although I was incredibly sad when the scan confirmed it there was a certain relief. I am getting over it very quickly. I am still sad at what had happened but because of the bad vibes I had I am glad it is over and I can make a positive new start in a couple of months.