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    Posted: 23 May 2011 at 10:28pm
Well it might not just be men but those that go out of the home to work while we stay at home looking after the kids.

I followed up on my thread jack and told my husband when he got home from work about how much I appreciated that he goes to work & slogs his heart out so that I can stay home & raise our kids. I told him that we usually bitch about how under appreciated we are but realised that we never gave them credit for keeping on bringing in that bacon.

I think he was pleasantly surprised.
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Oh, that was a really sweet thing for you to do

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Yip the main breadwinner doesn't always get much credit but in our family I tend to make sure little things are done for DH to make life a wee bit nicer for him.

I make his lunch every morning, make dinner every night and try to make sure that when he gets home the house is semi tidy. As much as I don't like doing the same things every day he must totally hate having to get up and go to work everyday too!

Im pretty lucky I get to stay home and raise the family and not miss out on the little things DD does like DH has to from being out of the home.

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Yep I do that too Mum Mum except make his lunch, I make sure he has stuff for his lunch though. He gets up way to early for me!!

I know they say actions speak louder than words but sometimes words are needed too
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Originally posted by AandCsmum AandCsmum wrote:

I know they say actions speak louder than words but sometimes words are needed too


This is so true.

I definitely appreciate what he does, not only earning money to support us, but also being an awesome Dad, but I don't actually say it out loud as often as I should *makes mental note to tell DH tonight*
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I found it fasinating when one of my friends who is a SAHM said that it is her DH's turn to look after their one year old in the weekends so that she can have a break. So he has to work at financially supporting the household five days a week and then come home and give her a break from parenting in the weekends? Madness.
I appreciate my DH on a daily basis for providing the lifestyle that we have.
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