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If I was him I would tell them to contact the police cos I'm pretty sure they would back down before doing so cos they are so blatantly in the wrong and they must know there are as why else would they be pulling out the scare tactics.

Anyway I hope he finds another job quickly, no one needs the stress of an arsehole employer

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Yeah I agree - it's an empty threat made from desperation. Hey, if they keep this up he may even have grounds for unjustifiable dismissal

Let them go to the police if they want. Doubt they could make it stick plus if anything the police would probably just refer it to DOL and then they'd have to repay the $$ they took from him unauthorised.

But yeah shouldn't have any trouble at all transitioning into retail. I went from hotels into airline call centre - so basically anything that is customer facing is easy to transition to.

Best option would be for him to get another job and then take a grievince case against them - but you would need to check with DOL about what evidence you need to gather for that and whether moving first would hurt his case (though I doubt it since as I said before it's pretty close to being constructive dismissal)

Good luck with whatever he decides - sounds really stressful.


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Thanks everyone, he is basically breaking down with me.

He had DD this morning so I could get a bit of rest and he came in when he knew I would be awake and just wanted a hug he keeps apologising to me and he is scared. I've got his CV so will be sending it off again today.  He just wants out, he doesn't care he wants to hand in his notice today. I'm sending it off to Bravo and have suggested he waits to hear from them as they will know the state of the hospitality industry. I will be sending it off to other recruitment agencies as well however. He is putting so much pressure on himself because he now feels like he needs to provide for his family.

One of the boys who has worked for the employer longer then he has is angry as all hell but DP doesn't expect him to do anything as he has a family to provide for himself. The suck thing is that the employers are so well known and had a really successful restaurant in Auck and been in the industry for a long time. It got heated at work last night which is why I wanted to go and be there when they talked because well one is Maori and one is Samoan and personality wise neither will back down! At least if I had been there then I could have shut DP up before he said anything damaging etc.

One of our really good friends worked with him for awhile and went on Maternity leave and GM told her she couldn't come back early as he had employed someone to fill the position while she was away on a fixed term agreement. Stupid thing is a week after handing in her notice the girl that replaced her left. So they are just simply trying to push people out! The people they push out are the ones that they have let get away with so much and know that they can pretty much do anything. I'm just getting so angry and frustrated for him. He keeps saying that he doesn't want to file a personal grievance because he doesn't want to affect the boys that will still be working there. I keep reminding him its got nothing to do with them though. I know the people he is worried about and they will all find work easily if it comes down to it. They can't get away with bullying their staff like this consistently



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