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cuppatea
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Posted: 23 May 2008 at 10:39am |
The position that we found good which one of the mw showed us at the birthing centre was to lay him face down across my knees and then rub his back. (just make sure you have a burp cloth on the floor). For months and months if he was upset, even if not with wind, then putting him in this position helped to calm him down.
I think you can get infacol from the pharmacy.
If he wakes up too early and he isn't hungry etc perhaps you could take him for a walk in the pram? or a ride in the car to help him go back to sleep. Once he is having longer sleeps this way then hopefully he will do it in his bassinet.
Mrs mojo, I so miss those naps on the couch, he so wouldn't do that now he likes his own space
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MrsMojo
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Posted: 23 May 2008 at 10:45am |
cuppatea wrote:
Mrs mojo, I so miss those naps on the couch, he so wouldn't do that now he likes his own space |
Me too. Michaela's grown so much we don't both comfortably fit on the couch anymore  and if I try and lie down with her in my bed she thinks it's great fun and wants to play unless she's ultra tired (and even then sometimes). I miss having a wee baby, love having a terrific 2 yr old though.
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Peanut
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Posted: 23 May 2008 at 12:58pm |
Also are you doing the 1 hour turn around? i found once I got that sorted he tended to sleep alot better. Its heaps easier to do the 1 hour turn around when you are bottle feeding.
I agree that when they are that little they are waking for a reason - not just to annoy us, althoughm have to agree at times it really appears that way.
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MrsMojo
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Posted: 23 May 2008 at 1:03pm |
Peanut wrote:
Also are you doing the 1 hour turn around? i found once I got that sorted he tended to sleep alot better. Its heaps easier to do the 1 hour turn around when you are bottle feeding. |
 Can you enlighten me? What is the 1 hour turnaround?
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cuppatea
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Posted: 23 May 2008 at 1:11pm |
It means that including feeding playing and bum change they are only up for an hour max. So basically back to bed 1 hour after they get up.
I found sometimes though that even an hour was too much and that he would need to go back to bed after 45 mins.
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peachy
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Posted: 23 May 2008 at 1:54pm |
The one hour turn around made my life so much easier when Lauren was a newborn. Once I started using that routine everything else seemed to fall into place. I totally recommend you try it as cuppatea detailed above!
Infacol is available at the supermarket too!
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peanut butter
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Posted: 23 May 2008 at 4:32pm |
45 min was our limit too. without wanting to be a "well meaning person" I would say dont stress, enjoy the cuddles and times when they fall asleep in your arms, forget housework (thats what DH is for) and try to rest. How about curling up in bed with bubs? I think everything sounds very normal and it does get better!.....then they change ALL the rules on you and come up with other issues
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SuperDaddy
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Posted: 23 May 2008 at 4:48pm |
We still do the one hour turnaround.
We also never did cc or cio .. whenever she cried, I went to her .. now she does what michaela does and lets out a little "cry" and waits.
I also used to let her sleep on me .. near me .. or wherever she wanted to for the first 12 weeks.
Now she sleeps happily in her bassinette or cot (I actually miss her sleeping on/with me now!)
Oh and a sling is fantastic! I wish I had got one when she was a newborn, would have made my life a breeze.
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mandz
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Posted: 23 May 2008 at 4:53pm |
Hi guys
Thanks for all the suggestions. Will try the one hour turnaround although think we are close to that usually. I do have a front pack so might try and use that more too! Bought the infacol - so here's hoping it works!
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mcilrs
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Posted: 23 May 2008 at 6:45pm |
I had the same problem with my dd who is now 3 months. The infacol worked absolute wonders (can be bought at chemist or supermarket). I gave this to her before a feed as she would feed, play, feed & sleep so I found that the last feed she would wake very quickly and be uncomfortable. You only need very small amounts and it is amazing stuff!
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caitlynsmygirl
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 11:26am |
Hope it helps too Mandz!
I never had any probs with Caitlyn sleeping,must have been pure luck cos i cant think of anything special i did-i did have a routine though ,perhaps that helped
I know a girl though, whos daughter is 2 and still wakes up all the time, and has her day naps on her mothers lap....mind you her mother gives her iceblocks in bed so what would you expect?
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