After reading the other smoking thread I thought you lovely, wise ladies maybe able to offer some ideas/advice.
Ok... well I only have my Nana as family support closeby. She has a really good bond with both my boys & they absolutely adore her. We visit maybe once a week & help her out with shopping etc as she doesnt drive.
Nan recently started seeing someone after the death of my Gdad in '06. Hes good for her, makes her happy (from what ive seen) & has started spending lots of time at her house etc.
The problem is.. he smokes
LOTS & has started smoking inside
Her flat is so small, all the smoke lingers & stinks the whole joint out. Nan doesnt seem to mind, but i now HATE going there. Even as a smoker myself, i find it disgusting & smelly that he does it inside

, and am worried about the health of my boys.
This has really started to bug me. What to do?? What to say?? Because i smoke.. And its not my house.. And I dont want to upset their relationship etc I feel funny IYGWIM Im normally a straitforward, speak my mind kinda person, but cant in this case..