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SethsMama
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Posted: 02 September 2012 at 3:06pm |
Hey Nigella,
I wish you and your family all the best.
It must have been a rough decision, you are much stronger than most!
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epictraveller
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Posted: 02 September 2012 at 3:29pm |
Hugs Nigella, I have thought of you several times and wondered how you're doing. Enjoy your hubby and your child and life in general xx
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Posted: 02 September 2012 at 3:30pm |
On another note... Sethsmama! Hello stranger! How are you?
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RachFizz
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Posted: 02 September 2012 at 10:13pm |
Well I'm confused- haven't had any ov pain yet as well as a lack of EWCM so not sure if it's gonna happen later or just not or it has but I haven't noticed haha. I guess that's what you get when you're not charting or using opks and you're forgetting to check cp and cm lol
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snowwhite
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Posted: 03 September 2012 at 10:12am |
Hi Ladies,
I think this is the right place for me to join in. DH and I have been trying to conceive actively for the last twelve months or so with a break of a few months recently. This is our first cycle of being back on the wagon and I'm finding this week to be a little too hard to handle on my own, hence my joining you all. We have one little guy who is 3 and awesome, we really didn't think it would take so long the second time round.
This week has been driving me nuts though, I keep over analysing everything a possible symptom (had heartburn early last week which I've only ever had while pregnant, so of course that was suddenly a possible symptom!). I'm beating myself up with "ohh that could be a symptom" and "ahh that's a definite AF symptom, so not preggers then."
I'm currently feeling out of sorts this morning, can't decide if I'm hungry, nauseas, depressed or frustrated. So I thought I'd hunt out a chat room, really hard an urge to chat in real time but there seems to be no such beast and found this forum instead. So I'm sitting here typing this, feeling odd and trying to make it all better with a jar of nutella and a spoon *evil wink*
AF is due sometime around Wednesday but my cycle is a bit of a biotch and can come anytime from 28-31 days.
Ok, if I'm not careful I'll write a post the full length of the forum page so I'll stop now and wait to see if anyone is around - I'll share my Nutella
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Posted: 03 September 2012 at 11:07am |
Hi snowwhite- yes you are in the right place! We can all relate to what you are going through. I myself am not currently in 2WW- instead CD5 but know what you are talking about! Im convinced my body hates me at the moment by toying with my emotions and giving me all sorts of symptoms Im sure I never had in 2WW prior to having DS who is now 2 years. More likely I am just more consious of it! I had heartburn last cycle plus bloating ++ I spotted from CD21 (got AF on CD31) and had mild cramps for about same length of time. The thing is you just never know- so dont give up hope- it aint over till the AF witch sings
I will pass on the nutella for now- but can you save me some for in about 2 weeks time?
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Posted: 03 September 2012 at 12:19pm |
Hey Dunson33, why is it our own bodies like to torture ourselves so much? I wish I was one of those people who wrote seriously detailed journal entries on a daily basis so that each month I could go back and check that xyz "symptoms" are actually all the same for the months when I was positive I could not be pregnant. I need to find myself an all encompassing hoppy to distract my mind.
What a terrible roller coaster we put ourselves through.
Anyways, I've put the Nutella away, saving plenty for you next week. Good luck.
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Mamaofboys
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Posted: 03 September 2012 at 1:10pm |
Hi ladies only a few days until af is due, holding out buying a test this time as i dont have high hopes  hubby and i have decided to go one more cycle (making it the eighth) and then have a break until after christmas, to be honest i've lost all cluckiness and excitement, and i'm really bummed out especially as i feel like my body has failed me. So having a feeling sorry for myself day.
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Posted: 03 September 2012 at 1:24pm |
Hi Ladies  Personally I think the 2ww should be illegal and we should just know if we're pregnant straight after ovulation!
I'm on CD27 on our 3rd month of trying after I had a MC and d&c in June. AF is due either tomorrow or Wednesday, I have done 2 tests (just the FR dipper type) so far and BFN.
My 'symptoms' so far are mild cramping starting 2DPO culminating in very strong cramps 10DPO and nothing since, waves of nausea, tiredness, thrush, hungry all the time, high and soft cervix with plenty of gobs of CM....but still with the BFN!!! FRUSTRATED MUCH?!!!!
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Posted: 03 September 2012 at 4:31pm |
Welcome snow white!
Hoping it was just too early pepsicle
Dunson sorry to hear AF reared her ugly head, I had thought it might be your month this time from your last posts.
Mama, sorry to hear you are feeling down about it. We all seem to be right in the negative spirits today huh.
Including me unfortunately, my temp dropped two days in a row, only wee drops and its still higher than it normally is after ov, but this is what my temp does before AF, lots of wee drops that make me think there might be hope and then its all over rover. So sick of this roller coaster ride!
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Posted: 03 September 2012 at 5:02pm |
Yep thats it, I am going to throw a pity party and we are all invited!! Pepsicle I agree TWW should be illegal- with modern technology why cant they just say on CD1 you will definitely be pregnant this month if you sex on ____(this) day? Is this too much to ask? alternatively the test would say "this isnt your month dont bother getting your hopes up"? Pretty sure if I invented that test I would be mega rich!!
Good luck to you 3 ladies almost testing- there are definitely some positive sounding symptoms in there- Nigella big hugs to you
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SethsMama
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Posted: 03 September 2012 at 7:55pm |
Hey Epic
Sorry for being a bit MIA guys. I think after the MC I thought I would get UTD fairly quickly but that never happend.
I'm just a little down about TTC and kinda resigned that it's not going to happen this year for some reason. Add to that a couple new part-time jobs, helping my sister with her wedding and a lot of playcentre course work, I just feel tired all the time!
I'm actually going to book in to see a naturopath sometime this week, something just feels off with me. Maybe this will be the positive kick that gets me amped for TTC again. At least maybe get my energy levels sorted!
Anyway sorry for the depressing post, just letting ya'll know I'm still here, still stalking everyone! Haha! Although there are lots of new people who probably don't even remember me!
Congrats on all the recent BFPs to. So exciting to see people graduating from the frustration of the 2WW.
Anyway I'm CD9 so not technically here anyway.
Good luck to everyone testing soon
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Posted: 03 September 2012 at 10:46pm |
Nice to 'see' you SethsMama, sorry things are hectic for you and that there's been a lack of a BFP  Hope the naturopath is worthwhile and gets things sorted.
Well I'm gonna just declare myself in here even though I don't really know lol. I think ov would have been yesterday or today as I did end up having a few tinges yesterday, as well as sore boobs and crampy feelings today. Bd'd last night with pre-seed so hopefully that's ok timing. I have had barely any fertile cm the last 2 cycles- I'm not sure if it's due to the doc upping my medication which has been giving me a dry mouth- I imagine they're related. Ah well. Hopefully won't get my hopes up too much!
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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 9:02am |
I have to say Ladies, it's so reassuring to be surrounded by a bunch of women who really do understand what I'm driving my self crazy over, who have been there month after month just like me.
I've been reading a bit on all this temping stuff, not sure if it's for me though. I was using one of those MaybeBaby Saliva testers for ovulation and that became too much of a hassle for me, took out the fun.
While writing this I've managed to actually organise my son's first dentil visit so I have to run and get things ready as they've had a cancelation for this morning.
Take care all.
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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 11:19am |
Hi ladies
Just wanted to "pop in" and say hi *waves*
I'm not officially in the TWW as I am just on CD1 but after a 2month break... DH and I are back on the TTC band wagon (so to speak  ) this cycle and I am excited that the first day of our trying cycle has arrived  (knew you ladies would understand my crazy excitement about having AF haha)Can't beleive it has been a year now of TTC though... we started for #2 in August last year
My cycles have decreased from 38-40 days to 33-35 in the last couple of months which I totally put down to the vitex and vit b6 I have been taking like a crazy person  and only by noticing EWCM I think OV is earlier than CD26 too! Time to buy me some OPK's
So I look forward to chatting to some known "faces"  (to which I am sorry you are still here  ) and new "faces" (hope your stay is short)
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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 11:46am |
Happy to see you back on the wagon Storm!!
Definitely good that we all know how this feels (much as that sucks).
I'm 11dpo today and another wee temp drop today but still where my temp is normally post-O. Yesterday was feeling sick every time I ate, its not so bad today but haven't eaten in three hours and still feeling yucky, bit worried its AF coming early
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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 12:18pm |
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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 1:49pm |
Well, taking DS to his first dental appointment seemed like a good idea at the time, however, after attempting to put fluoride on his teeth and resulting in him vomiting all over the dentist and himself, probably wasn't so good after all.
On the plus side, I bumped into a friend while I was out and she told me that DS's pre-school teacher asked her if I was pregnant because had been reading a story to the kids about a woman who has a house in her tummy, and DS told her that I had a baby in my tummy - hopefully he's psychic
Have to say, I've been feeling really nauseas today and have a bit of headache since waking this morning, AF is (tentatively) due tomorrow but I'll put off testing till Thursday or Friday I think.
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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 3:03pm |
Snow White that would be awesome if your DS was right!!
AFM, I've been wanting to be sick all day! My body is definitely messing with my head!
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Posted: 04 September 2012 at 4:11pm |
I wouldn't mind the waiting so much, if it wasn't for the barrage of possible symptoms. I hate just getting say nausea for no reason, nausea for being pregnant, fine, I'm all over it, but not for no reason.
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