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  | kiwisj   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Topic: Babies having babies Posted: 09 November 2009 at 3:29pm
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   From Stuff this morning 
12yr old gives birth to baby boy It's just sad    | 
 
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     SJ
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  | AandCsmum   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 09 November 2009 at 5:17pm | 
 
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   OMG!!! A 12 year old does not have the mental capacity to have a baby!
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  | fattartsrock   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 09 November 2009 at 10:20pm | 
 
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   THAt is absolutely disgusting!!! (says she who caught SS in bed with a girl a couple of weeks back and found out on saturday the girl is only 14!!!!!!!!!!!! I was unhappy and angry before, now i am bloody ropeable!!!)
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     The Honest Un PC Parent of 2, usually stuck in the naughty corner! :P
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  | Shezamumof3   Senior Member
 
   
 
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 10 November 2009 at 12:03am | 
 
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   omg thats insane...at 11/12 I was not evening thinking about sex and babies!!
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  | kiwisj   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 10 November 2009 at 12:27am | 
 
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   I know Sheena, I was still climbing trees, riding my bike and coveting my sister's new roller blades.
 FT - OMFG FOURTEEN        Gutted catching SS in bed at all actually    | 
 
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  | fattartsrock   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 10 November 2009 at 2:50pm | 
 
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   yes, i was really REALLY REALLY angry, and was apoplectic when I discoverd how old the girl was. He is almost 18, so thats kind of sick, really. I will be getting in touch with her parents, as he is moving out in 2 weeks (WOOOOOOOHOOOOO!!!!!!!!!) and if it was me, I would want to know about that. 
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  | caliandjack   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 10 November 2009 at 4:29pm | 
 
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   That's almost bordering on child abuse, allowing your 12 year old to even have a boy friend in the first place, let alone sleep together in your house.
My niece is 13 and I can guarantee she isn't allowed any boys to 'sleep over' let alone a boy friend.
 What kind of mother does she have. sick sick sick
 
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  | Paws   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 10 November 2009 at 5:08pm | 
 
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   OMG.....Did that say.....LIVE IN BOYFRIEND???? What the heck was the mother thinking??? Was she thinking???
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  | Natalie_G   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 10 November 2009 at 8:39pm | 
 
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   That's crazy how could the mum allow that to happen!
 I was busy playing Barbie lol.  I didn't start thinking about sex till about 16.
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  | fattartsrock   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 10 November 2009 at 9:01pm | 
 
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   Its disgusting, eh??? A live in at 11!!! makes oyu wonder wht the rest of hte home life is like.. so sad!
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  | kiwisj   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   I just don't even understand IN WHAT UNIVERSE is that OK???  I mean, even OKing a boyfriend at that age, let along living in.  It's just so wrong.  Particularly sad that her father reported the mother to the authorities and what did they say?  Oh we can't stop a child from having contact with another child....
 Dumb dumb dumb!
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  | NovemberMum   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 11 November 2009 at 12:08am | 
 
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   there is no way  in the world I would allow my 11 year old daughter to have a boy stay over the night (not even in seperate beds/rooms).
 and I cant imagine the toll being pregnant would take on an 11/12 year old. heck I am finding it hard enough at the ripe old age of 33.
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  | LittleBug   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   concieved at 11!? What??? Live in boyfriend!?!?! Boyfriend at all!?!?!?
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     Chloe (4 years) and Oliver (3 years).
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  | caitlynsmygirl   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 14 November 2009 at 11:50pm | 
 
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   #*($&)#$(&()#&*Q$()Q*#$()#*Q$()#$*()Q#$*Q#()$*#$()#$
 
 thats pretty much my take on it
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  | Tui89   Groupie
 
   
   
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   Her mother should be charged. That is all.
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  | pikelets   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 19 November 2009 at 8:12pm | 
 
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   That is awful!  That is borderline neglect/abuse/god knows whatelse I can call it from the girls mother.  That poor 12yr old and baby!
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  | flakesitchyfeet   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 20 November 2009 at 6:44pm | 
 
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   Agree with you all....for the most part. 
I started going out with my husband when I was 12 (23 days before my 13th birthday, he was 13) but we didn't have sex till after we were married, and when we stayed at one anothers before then, it was strictly seperate rooms :)
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  | caitlynsmygirl   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 20 November 2009 at 7:50pm | 
 
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   My friend's parents met when they were twelve, and became boy friend girlfriend at 13 , stayed together all through school, married at 21 and are still happily married 30 years later, and thats including going through the unexpected loss of their daughter .
But still, 11 and getting pregnant , Caitlyn will be 11 in 4 years and it was only yesterday I gave birth to her .
 Its too young .
 Way too young .
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  | flakesitchyfeet   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   Absolutely too young. I still think I'm far too young. But then I'm in a mood tonight    | 
 
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  | Aithne   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 24 November 2009 at 4:32pm | 
 
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   I know im a young mum but OMG 12years old      | 
 
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