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EllenMumof2 
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Posted: 15 May 2007 at 9:01pm |
I am thinking of geting my tubes tied after this baby and they will be doing it after my c-section. Has anyone here had it done? and if so what feelings did you have about it??? im 95% sure i want it as i have so much trouble with birth control and im quite happy with 3 babys but every now then i get this what if feeling 
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Maya
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Posted: 15 May 2007 at 10:00pm |
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I was really serious about having it done after the gremlins were born, even at the same time if I'd had a c-sect, but my OB wasn't keen because of my age. I'm glad I didn't get it done as my motivation then was how sick I was and how difficult I found the pregnancy, whereas now that I have had a few months to gain perspective I'd actually be keen to do it again somewhere down the track.
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mummy_becks
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Posted: 15 May 2007 at 10:36pm |
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I know I have to go one step further and have the whole lot taken out at some stage (due to endo and some other things). I know Annie is or has already had it done.
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nuttymama
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Posted: 16 May 2007 at 6:58am |
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We had an elective C-section due to a breach bub. And they didn't ask me about it until 10 minutes before my ceaser. We have three and are well and truly done and I really wish I had it. But when the surgeon realized we hadn't been asked about it before she said it wasn't a good idea to make a snap decision, so bugger!!
But if you are still that 5% unsure maybe not such a good idea. Although you have a bit more time to think about it.
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fattartsrock
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Posted: 16 May 2007 at 9:57am |
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Yep, I'm on the waiting list, it will happenin the next couple of months. That said, though, my birthday pressie this year consisted of Rod getting a vasectomy, so I may not get it done.. only becasue it is a major and with a wee baby and a wedding coming up, I really can't be out of action for 6 weeks. However, I will see if I can get it pushed back til after october (I hadn't expected the waiting list to be so short!)
I am unable to be on the pill, as it makes me super crazy, so this was really the only option for me. I would say I'm about 97%, as there is still a tiny part of me that says "it's so final" even though I really don't want to do the baby thing again. I do get the what if feeling sometimes, too, but realistically, if "something" happened to either of my 2, I wouldn't want to have another baby to "replace" them, but I might want another one, but not straight away, and with our ages, it would make us a bit "old" to be starting out again..Well, Rod, anyhow!
We may foster in the future, though, and there is always puppies, as we breed our dog. (for the clucky thing)
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Posted: 16 May 2007 at 12:21pm |
Nope we talked about it and I told hubby for once he will take control of birthcontrol and when the time comes he better go for the snip snip otherwise no oo la la until he goes.
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Posted: 16 May 2007 at 1:17pm |
I'd be inclined to wait until my youngest was 2yrs before making a final decision. Wouldn't be able to trust my hormones/emotions! 
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megrac
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Posted: 16 May 2007 at 1:45pm |
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personally i dont want the thing of not being able to have any more kids although number 3 is on the way and we dont want any more kids, so my man is steping up to the plate and is going to get the chop when the baby is 1 year old.
but i have a cousin and a friend that both had their tubes tied afther their c-sections when thay both had 3 kids.
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EllenMumof2
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Posted: 16 May 2007 at 9:02pm |
thanks guys for your thoughts 
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Peace
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Posted: 16 May 2007 at 9:18pm |
I have heard on another board (EBB) about there being a lack of success with steralisation during c/s! I think they usually like you to wait 3-6 months before going back in to make sure the job is well and truely done.
Maybe think about that idea a little? Would you be willing to have 6 weeks on your butt with 3 kidlets? Especially since you would get over major abdominal surgery twice in 2 years THEN keyhole (is it still keyhole? or VJJ cam?) surgery on top of that. What about seeing if you can have a different type of *non high maintainence* birth control. So like Mirena, IUD or depo till you can get out of the first year intact, then go for more surgery.
Just a thought for you sugar 
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tubes tied :-S
