Amy was 20months when Sophie was born and yes it was tough at times (and it still is

) but it is great. They love each other so much and play really well (most of the time). Sophie adores Amy is is her little shadow and runs after her everywhere and Amy is so caring if Sophie - she even shares her biscuits sometimes!!
As someone else said - routine will be your friend! The best thing i have done is to get both of them sleeping from 1 -3 each day

. Also once baby arrives, just being organised with things like drinks and snacks and books for Jaye to have whilst you are feeding baby.
And for a while, TV will be your friend

- In the early days Amy watched a LOT of ITNG and Bob the Builder. Not great parenting but when you have a new baby you just have to do what you have to do

.
Congrats - it will be OK