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  | Samwise   Newbie
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Topic: Vaccinations are due...... Posted: 14 November 2008 at 11:41am
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   I know it's a very passionate subject and ultimately it's my decision ...... but if anyone has any ideas on what made them decide either way or if they had heard some good pros/cons re vaccinations I'd love to hear them.  Thanks!     | 
 
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  | kebakat   Senior Member
 
   
 
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   I wanted all the standard ones done but I was unhappy about giving a new vaccine (for us it was menzb) because it was so new and I didn't want to give lots at the same time incase there was a bad reaction to any of them. We did have a bad reaction to one so I'm thankful I made that choice, we delayed menzb (and I realise it's not really available now, there's that other one) and he reacted really badly to that too, so much so I refused to finish the course of it.
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  | fire_engine   Senior Member
 
   
 
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   I did because I wanted Daniel to have good immunity. I know there is an argument that some of the diseases aren't around much so kids don't need to be immunised against them, but one reason they died out is that most of the population was immunised.  At heart, I'm a conservative who works in healthcare and has worked with people who got some of the diseases we're immunising against so was always going to be pro immunisation!
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  | Maya   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   I'm with Flissty. In the beginning I immunised Maya coz it was the done thing, but I've since attended a seminar on immunisation in NZ and it only convinced me more. I did delay the gremlins MenzB so they didn't have to have so many needles tho.
 Maya and Mercedes both had allergic reactions to some of their imms (Maya had to have adrenaline after she swelled up like a balloon after her 15 mth MMR vaccine and Mercedes came out in a top to toe rash after her 2nd MenzB) and as a result Maya had to have her 4 year MMR done under supervision at Starship.
 
 Lil miss has just had her 12 week ones this week (delayed coz she has been sick) and she has been a lot more grouchy and grotty than I remember any of the others being.
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  | peanut butter   Senior Member
 
   
 
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   I started with them all but never gave teh final menzB one. It never sat right with me and I kinda did it because I ran out of time to dither on it.  When they scrapped it and I heard that some kids didnt gain any immunity I thought, "why bother".  He is due for his MMR though and I will give that.  then we take a breather for 2.5yrs.  phew....oh thats right, no2 will need them.....ugh!
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  | tishy   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 I did because I wanted Daniel to have good immunity. I know there is an argument that some of the diseases aren't around much so kids don't need to be immunised against them, but one reason they died out is that most of the population was immunised.
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 This pretty much sums up how I feel about it too.
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  | pikelets   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   OMG Emma - poor Maya/Mercedes getting such a reaction.  Did Maya swell up while you were still at the doctors? 
 I have immunised DS because I would just feel terrible if he got one of those diseases.
 
 I am not looking forward to the MMR jab though.  There is so much controversy with this one being linked to autism.  Does anyone know if you can get them seperately?  In the UK they offered them seperately because people were not getting the MMR jab.
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  | busymum   Senior Member
 
   
 
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   The big thing for us was being able to hear/read all the points of view (and as far as reading goes, checking whether they were written in the 80's or actually were current) and then asking a list of questions to our GP. If you are unsure about vaccinations at the moment, it is okay to procrastinate and go on board later - we started vaccinations for Hannah when she was 10mos.
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   I've done a fair bit of reading on this, from both sides, and it seems like it's a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation - but IMHO you're more damned if you don't... like Star I decided I'd feel so terrible if DD got sick on account of me deciding not to immunise her.
 But the MMR just makes me too uneasy, so she won't be getting that one. I know they haven't proven a link between it and autism, it could be just a coincidence that rates of autism have increased dramatically since the introduction of the vaccine, but how come, for example, women who get rubella when they're pregnant are more likely to give birth to autistic children (surely there must be some link between rubella and autism?). 
 Anyway, these are just my thoughts. Visit IAC  for pro-vaccine advice and IAS  for the anti-vaccine info. I read the IAS's points and then went to the IAC for its rebuttal. 
 ETA: Visit the 'Health Professionals' info section on the IAC's site as well as the 'Parents and Caregivers' section - there is much more detailed info (ie. levels of formeldehyde etc in the vaccines)
 
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  | pikelets   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 ...... for example, women who get rubella when they're pregnant are more likely to give birth to autistic children (surely there must be some link between rubella and autism?).
 
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 I haven't heard of that so that is very interesting.    I have a few months to think about it and research it more.  
 You are right though - you are damned if you do and damned if you don't. You just have to do what you think is right and hope it's the right decision.  
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  | scribe   Senior Member
 
   
 
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   I read it on the IAC site, so it should be credible ('mothers who suffered rubella early in pregnancy  have babies at increased risk of autism'), link | 
 
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  | gypsynita   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   The only one I wasn't sure about was Prevenar (the one that's replaced MenzB) because I thought it was new and after the menzb scandel didn't want to risk something that might not even work -- but talked about it with doc and nurse who both told me that it's been around for ages used in heaps of other countries with no big issues, it's just that the govt here has only just decided to endorse it...  if that helps! 
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  | blondy   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   I work as a scientist in the virology/immunology area, so naturally am generally pro-vaccination. My main reason is the same that has already been pointed out, namely that some of the diseases that we immunise against are now fairly rare because the majority of the population have been immunised, and hence there is no large natural 'reservoir' to perpetuate the diseases. And also how would I feel if Natalie were to become infected with an infection that was preventable by immunisation?
 One thing I would say about the MMR/autism subject is to make sure the information comes from a peer-reviewed source. For example, the IAC site does provide some journal article links to certain topics regarding immunisation, but alot of the statements made on their site are not referenced to any studies, and hence it's difficult to know where the information has come from.... also make sure that the information is relevant and up-to-date (there are many referenced studies dating back to the 70's, which may not be relevant to the vaccines used today).
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   I have a 5 year old that is autistic after receiving the 15 month jabs and lot long after we noticed a diffference in his behaviour we took him to our GP and he put it down that he is seeking our attention and to ignore it plus he was still not saying any words. By the time he was 22 months our paediatrician referred us to someone else and diagnosed him with autism. It is catch 22 as we don't know what causes it but all I can relate back to is the 15 month jabs. Our daughter is 2 months and we are in two minds about it and she won't be getting any vaccines until we are 100% sure. | 
 
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   Thanks Andrea - it is good to hear your opinion given your field of work.  I think  the trouble with the MMR jab is finding the correct information.  As you say, there are many references out there but are they right? 
 I also think it doesn't help when the media jump on the band wagon, again, is what they are saying correct or are they blowing it out of proportion?  I was in the UK when there was a huge debate about it a few years ago so that is why I am worried about this one.  DS has had all other jabs.
 
 Kiwigal - I have been told that the main age for diagnosis is around 15 mths so that is why people are linking it.  This is just what I have heard.  DH nephew has autism which was diagnosed around the same time.  Now he is 12 and you wouldn't even know if you met him.
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  | Shezamumof3   Senior Member
 
   
 
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   I Am with Flissty on this.
I never even considered not having Caden immunised. Its for his protection against some of the most horrible illnesses out there.
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   I just want to say I work in the healthcare sector and with autistic children and I am a vaccinator. 
The MMR vaccine has been found time and time agian to have no link to autism.
 
 In saying that do completely understand Kiwigirl the reason you would be careful about immunising your autistic child as there is always that fear  there that it could have caused it.
 
 I am very much pro immunisation, but it is the parents choice and as long as you have gotten all the information and make an informed choice either way, then do what feels right for your family
 
 www.immune.org.nz is a good website for pro immunisation.  As with antiimmunisation I am not sure
 But when you go looking you can freak youself out so take everything with a grain of salt
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  | mumtooboys   Senior Member
 
   
 
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   This is a topic that is very much on my radar at the moment and we are not having DS2 vaccinated against MMR in 2 months time when he is due and I wish he wasn't vaccinated with the others he's already had.  He never had the MenzB because we never could decide and by the time we had decided it was no longer an option....but we'd already decided against it anyway.  His were delayed anyway due to illness so he was always "behind" in the schedule, just wish I had started looking into this sooner.
 If I knew half the stuff I know now, DS1 probably wouldn't have had half the vaccinations that he had.  He is fully up-to-date.  I personally find it appalling that as a parent my choices are essentially to vaccinate against MMR or not vaccinate as you can't get single jabs here to answer your question Star. We are both quite "happy" to vaccinate him against mumps, but not measles or rubella.  If it didn't cost so much in flights, we might have considered taking DS2 back to the UK to get the single mumps jab.
 
 For me, it's much less about the ineffectiveness of many of the vaccines and more to do with what actually goes into making them!  I am really not looking forward to explaining to my Plunket nurse why Alex is not having his MMR.  I don't want to be scared, or bullied into doing something just because it's the "done" thing, I want to know that it is the right thing for me and my family and for us that may be only partially vaxxing or not vaxxing at all (not an option currently, but any future children would not be getting vaxxed at such an early age, if at all).
 
 There are quite a few good books to read on the subject, I've found all mine at the local library and as with most topics, you can always find "proof" to support your position so you have to do the research and then decide for yourself which is the more plausible.  The more I read, the more questions I have, and until I get satisfactory answers Alex won't be getting anymore jabs.
 
 
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   Mumtooboys, Spencer has not been vaccinated and so far we have not had to expain our reasons to anyone. We spoke to our midwife prebirth when we decided not to do the vit K and she asked if we had researched and left it at that. Then at 6 week check the doc asked if we had researched it all, I said yes, he said ok. The nurse that checked him over had to write something on the records for the govt and i believe she just wrote something along the lines of "declined by parents". I can't even remember if plunket asked but if she did she certainly didn't make a big deal about. We also haven't had trouble finding daycares etc, they just need to know in case of out breaks but it doesn't stop them being taken on etc.
 Our midwife did tell us of a doc in christchurch that will do single jabs (not sure if that meant seperating the MMR one or just that you could do one of the others but not MMR for example) so it may pay to ask around in case a doc in your area is willing to do that for. It may just mean that you have to pay for it, same as having to pay for seperate jabs in the UK.
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   cuppa,
 Cheers for that!  Might have to look into it. 
 My plunket nurse isn't very helpful, or supportive, to start with so I get the feeling she might balk at the whole not getting his MMR done...but I suppose she could surprise me yet.  LOL  Might do what I normally do, just smile and nod politely when she says something I don't agree with and then "escape as fast as I can.    | 
 
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