I sometimes have to wake DP up when he sleeps through his alarm... but doesn't particularly worry me, him being late on a regular basis would definitely worry me more as we need the money

... and really I am soooooo lucky I get to stay home with DD2 while he works 12 hour days so I can

He gets every second weekend off and we have one sleep in each then... I'm the same Aliasmum I do everything around the house (except the wood and rubbish) but I think it would be somewhat unfair to expect him to do it when he works so many hours....