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Storm11 
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 Posted: 11 October 2012 at 1:47pm |
Tan my thoughts - and definitely from experience - temp drops for one day due to implantation  so hope it's a good sign for you? Can I ask - when did you have MC is this your first cycle after and you are still trying? I only ask cause as I said in my post above - my doc has said there is specific research to show that getting preg so soon after delivering a baby can cause you to MC and she seems to think the same about MC and has said we should think about not trying for 3-6 months!!! Yeah right! And then, funnily enough I was just reading a story about Tori Spelling who had heaps of difficulties with her last pregnancy, like Placenta Previa most likely due to getting pregnant a month after having her baby!! (which is just crazy LOL) and I just thought that was interesting LOL 
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Posted: 11 October 2012 at 5:10pm |
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Storm - thanks for that. I didn't know about the implantation thing so fxd! I did read your post about the research and I found it very interesting but I balked a bit at the waiting part - mainly because I am 39, and don't want to wait any longer. I have given up caffeine though! I had my MC on August 21. I have had one AF 32 days later and my doc told me to count 9 days from the first day of AF and try for the week. We have done that and now the wait is on!
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Posted: 11 October 2012 at 5:57pm |
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Posted: 12 October 2012 at 7:46am |
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Tan I don't blame you - I don't think we will wait either as there is no evidence to show the after affects of MC and I'm pretty sure your body is completely different after carrying a baby for 9 months then giving birth - compared to being pregnant for a short time and having a MC, so I don't think we will wait 3-6 months. Someone said to me, that it would be perfect cause then I can enjoy summer... I could do that if I was pregnant! LOL
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Posted: 12 October 2012 at 8:14am |
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Storm - I totally know what you mean! I think after suffering the losses that we have, we feel like being pg anytime would be better than not at all!
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Posted: 12 October 2012 at 8:17am |
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Thanks Dunson for the fingers xd!
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Posted: 14 October 2012 at 7:52pm |
Well, my temp has been up and stayed up for 10 days now. I am 8DPO and I got a little impatient...Yes I POAS - the early detection ones, and BFN  Silly me, I should wait patiently! I can't believe how impatient I have been really. I have no other symptoms and I know it's way too early anyway. I guess that's why they call it the agonising TWW. And it's only my first cycle! What am I going to be like after a few more??? Feeling so silly right now. The lesson here is to be patient!
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Posted: 16 October 2012 at 11:58am |
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Hey Tan, hope it was just too early for you!
AFM, I've been quiet for a few days, but I got AF last week, which means I didn't actually ov this cycle. I was seriously gutted for a few days, just so upset since we tried so hard last cycle. Now I'm a little more onwards and upwards and determined to make this cycle count!
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Posted: 16 October 2012 at 3:35pm |
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Hang in there epic! And FX tan hopefully it was just too early- its a bit quite in here at the mo -although I should even be in here as not in TWW yet- just like to hang our here!
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Posted: 16 October 2012 at 5:53pm |
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Epic - how do you know you didn't ov? Do you use OPK's? or just chart?
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Posted: 16 October 2012 at 8:28pm |
Oh Epic I'm gutted for you :-( this does blow huh! Wow ur chart looks crazy from last cycle! It's gotta be our turn soon  I'm starting to get really down and totally gutted and friends and family having babies and getting pregnant - and notice that the feeling is getting worse 
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Posted: 16 October 2012 at 8:44pm |
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Want to see a crazy chart? Look at mine. I thought I had OVd and so did FF but guess what! I didnt. Day 83 and still counting!!
Do I go to doc or not???
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Posted: 16 October 2012 at 9:51pm |
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^ I'd go to doc and ask to be referred to either Fertility clinic or an OB GYN
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Posted: 16 October 2012 at 9:57pm |
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Posted: 16 October 2012 at 10:01pm |
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I'm starting to get really down and totally gutted and friends and family having babies and getting pregnant - and notice that the feeling is getting worse |
Im hearing ya! It is hard when friends come up and say "Yay! I''m pregnant!" and while you are genuinely happy for them, a little part of you hurts too. We all get it, just keep swimming is my motto  (man I really need to,listen to my own advice sometimes!  )
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Posted: 17 October 2012 at 9:16am |
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Hay ladies, Can I join you group? My story is that me and my husband have 2 daughters already and we had a moment of passion last night.
We normally just use condoms around O and naturally family planning the rest of the time but I we didn't really think about where abouts my cycle was and when i checked my chart this morning it was my O day yesterday.
So I'll be waiting it out with the rest of you now.
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Posted: 17 October 2012 at 11:22am |
Tiger-lily I too am genuinely happy for them but it's starting to get less and less genuine I think LOL hard for me too as my chem pregs have all been at the same time someone I know has gotten preg, and they now have lil bubbas Wow! Blondie! that is a crazy chart!!! I would def be going to the doc to get checked out and see if you are actually OV - and if not - why!
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Posted: 17 October 2012 at 1:27pm |
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hey girls, i'm a new member as of 10 minutes ago - was wondering if I could join your group?? I'm almost 36 years old, have a DS who is 2 and have been trying for over a year now for #2 - am feeling the need to chat to people in the same boat as me!
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Posted: 17 October 2012 at 8:31pm |
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Welcome Rebecca and Kyes- of course you are more than welcome. This is a very supportive group and I have found is really helpful to have people in the same boat! Hugs to everyone feeling down and out at the moment. Blondie 80+ days I would be going to the Dr- but thats just my opinion..... Hope you doing ok
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Posted: 17 October 2012 at 8:32pm |
Welcome Rebecca and Kyes. For those of us that have been here a while we end up flicking between T2WMW and WTO threads. Fingers crossed you will both be swiftly knocked up 
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