TTC after miscarriage/loss

Not sure. I am seeing a specialist to get checked out after easter. My cycles are very irregular so may start that week or be another 2-3 weeks. But as soon as I start my next cycle it'll be all systems go! I find I get very down while I'm bleeding after a m/c but once that stops and I have a plan for the next try then my spirits lift. Hope everything is over quickly for you.

Thanks guys, I feel much better about it, my husband said not to worry we can try again and we've been lucky so far and we really have. I do feel lucky for what we have. It doesn't mean I didn't love and want this one too though. Which makes me feel badly for still feeling upset

Its hard no matter what stage of life you are at, or what stage baby was at... I have a beautiful 4 year old and am so blessed to have her, but losing my angel was still the most heartbreaking thing ive ever been though. and its not that im not grateful for my DD, actually its the opposite- she really helped me get through it all in her own little way.. its still hard when it happens though. and your hormones go crazy so you are emotional anyway! hugs. let yourself feel what you need to feel, then get up and carry on. we know how you feel right now xxx great that hubby is supportive and ready to try again soon. 

Oh no, so sorry to hear that. Glad you had good support. Hope it's all over for you soon.

oh coopersmummy Im so sad to come on and read that you have had a rough time. I hope the worst is over now xxx hugs!

How are you doing Coopersmummy? Hope everythings settling down.

1week today till my specialist appointment. Getting exciting. I feel I may be in for a fall though.

Nice to hear from you NZVeg and Talz, great things are going so well for both of you.

Sorry to see the new additions to the group!    I got AF for April Fools, so fitting!! So i'm turning 33 with nothing to show of it, crazy to think i was 31 when we started TTC and when i got preg with George! I've had a few more friends announce their pregs, around the due date i would have been with my Dec MC. I do so much sighing and crying at the moment!

I'm ok, I've never been so tired in my life though, I basically do one thing then nap, have a shower, nap. It's like my mind wants to be busy so I don't have to think but my body doesn't want to co-operate.

I find it so heartbreaking seeing others have this same thing happen

So lovely to see NZveg, Talz and Pepi doing well xx

Welcome to the newcomers, but so sorry for the journey that lead you here X

I just found out yesterday my little spark passed away a few days ago. I should be 10w3d today, it was not measuring the right size as with all my mmc they don't grow properly. Which is why I'm thinking it's something genectic. I have also read in a few places that loss after 8 weeks means it's usually something to do with the foetus.

I'm hopefully getting a D&C on Tuesday (which is actually my sons 1st birthday and we were supposed to be going to Staglands). I say supposed to be as my last mmc was also supposed to be a D&C but somewhere along the line someone lost my file and I never got booked and ended up doing it all at home. This time if I start to miscarry I'm going straight to the hospital. I am adamant they will collect the product no matter what as I need testing done. I can't do another pregnancy without answers.

Thank you a.girl for your kind thoughts in the charting girl thread. I was wondering if you can tell me what genectic testing involves? I know they can test the foetus and sperm, how do they test me? What did you have done to get your answers? I hope you don't mind me asking.

Hugs poppy and nell xxxx I hope you get plenty of rest this easter weekend (and get given lots of chocolate!) It sure can be a lonely journey. ..its nearly a year since I lost my angel and here is the only place I talk about it now and its been that way since about 2 mths after my loss..you get a few weeks down the track and the few people who were happy to talk about it start looking at you like you should be over it by now..I know before I experienced a mc I had no clue how devastating and life changing it is.. xxx yeah I was told when I had my 11wk mc that it was likely genetic as by then your progesterone etc cant really be to blame, and babys heart is formed and pumping..so for it to just stop-that doesnt "just happen" for no good reason. My angel also was a good 2 weeks behind growthwise from the beginning- no one believed me when I said it was impossible to only be 5 weeks preg as id known for over 3 weeks at that point. But yea sounds like you should put your foot down about getting the tissue tested.theres bloodtests etc they can do for you and your man too. Hugs!