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Sarzy 
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 Posted: 17 September 2014 at 5:04pm |
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Evil AF!
How are you going Fingersxd?
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Fingersxd4#2
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Posted: 17 September 2014 at 5:18pm |
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Still waiting for af lol
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Jun 08 - TTC #1
Dec 11 - Found out I was UTD
Jul 12 - DD was born
Jan 13 - TTC #2
May 14 - Early Miscarriage from final round of 50mg Clomid
Dec 14 - Miscarriage at 8.5weeks from 100mg Clomid
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a.girl
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Posted: 17 September 2014 at 6:56pm |
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Sorry for your loss jk :-( I'm in exactly the same boat as you right now. Should have been 8.5 weeks today and the little ticker stopped ticking. This is my 4th loss in 20 months. Luckily had an appointment with my specialist directly after today's scan so we spoke about the next stage of ivf (well, the actual mc itself too). I'm hoping to do medical management as I just had a d & c a few months ago.
Hugs to everyone else. Xxxx
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6 Angels...5/13, 11/13, 4/14, 9/14, 4/17, 10/17 (ectopic)
Balanced Translocation b/t 13&14
IVF #1 - no blastocysts
IVF #2 - 2 failed FETs
IVF #3 - 1 failed FET
IVF #4 - Donor eggs, no luck
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JK87
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Posted: 17 September 2014 at 7:10pm |
Hugs a.girl xx my thoughts are with you 
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Sarzy
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Posted: 17 September 2014 at 7:12pm |
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So sorry hear a.girl xx
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Posted: 17 September 2014 at 9:07pm |
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So sorry to hear a.girl. So heartbreaking.
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Posted: 18 September 2014 at 6:06am |
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Ugh I'm really sorry to hear this bad news confirmed a.girl. What a rough and unfair ride you have had. I hope IVF is the solution. Xxx
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*Sara*
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Posted: 18 September 2014 at 9:12am |
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Oh a.girl i'd so hoped this was your going to be your take home baby, i'm so very sorry! I hope the specialist has a good plan for you going forward. Take care and be gentle on yourself.
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Sarzy
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Posted: 23 September 2014 at 6:49am |
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How's everyone going in here?
Hugs to everyone that needs them xx
afm just waiting for af to arrive cd 39! Bit disheartened this month
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Posted: 23 September 2014 at 12:10pm |
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Hi Sarzy, all okay here... Had my surgery on Friday and all went well. I seem to be coping better emotionally this time around after the mc, i guess I had prepared myself for the possibility more.
Does anyone know much about the effect of chemo/radiation on sperm quality post treatment? My husband had many rounds over 1 year for leukaemia in 2008 so I am starting to wonder if that could be the reason for 2 miscarriages in six months. My specialist is doing lots of tests on DH and I to see if there is anything wrong but I am not sure if the tests would cover that. We did a mobility test (?) before we started TTC and they said the results were fine (40%) but I am wondering if that test looked at possible damage? Its been three years since he had any kind of treatment so we have been told everything should be okay as it regenerates but I do wonder... We have frozen sperm so we have IUI/IVF options available to us (not sure if funding would be available?) if necessary.
Will also be following this up with specialist/my gp, just wondering if anyone has encountered a similar issue!
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Charlie6
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Posted: 23 September 2014 at 1:08pm |
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Another day one for me today, after our last FET failed yet again. So we are starting a new cycle to use our last frozen embryo... I desperately hope this will be the one that sticks and I get my take home baby! Bit hard at the moment, my best friend just found they're having a girl, she is a week ahead of where I would have been- but instead here I am! Does anyone know much about egg donation? As this might be the next option for us after 6 failed ivf cycles. Why can't it just be easy for all of us ladies in here like it is for some?! Wishful thinking!
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Posted: 23 September 2014 at 7:58pm |
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Sorry Charlie. Don't know anything about donor eggs sorry.
And as for friends - so hard isn't it when they are just ahead of where you 'should' be. I just got invited to a baby shower in November. Definitely won't be going. It's a "I got pregnant the second month' girl and I have basically been unable to talk to her since she found out (she's due christmas day so must be 20 something weeks by now......)
BAck to waiting for ov for me. Hope it's more on time this month. Last two months have been a bit later than usual although gradually heading in the right direction...
Anyone in the 2WW?
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Posted: 23 September 2014 at 8:18pm |
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Yeah this friend is also one of those got pregnant the second month of trying, and then has complained the entire time about morning sickness.... I would give anything to have the pleasure of morning sickness! I'm not sure how i'm going to cope at her baby shower when the time arrives - but i guess i will end up dealing with it like i have learnt to do on this very hard road!
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Posted: 23 September 2014 at 8:37pm |
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Yeah sucks big time Charlie. Luckily this was never a close friend so I can easily come up with an excuse (and with any luck I'll be working!!). I feel guilty but I just wouldn't enjoy it and would probably burst into tears at some point
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Posted: 24 September 2014 at 10:15am |
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Oh i'm sorry Charlie! I really hope your next frosty bub sticks!
I hope your eggie pops out soon NZVeg, I've been very surprised by my body seemingly going back to 'normal' so soon after birth!
My bff is due a week before George was too, whats with that annoying trend! Unfortunately their lost their IVF baby last year, so are very understanding. Its still going to be a really hard time next month when they have their baby.
Having someone around you complain about their preg symptoms must be a nightmare! I see that / hear people out in public complaining about their children and all i want to do is yell out "at least your baby is alive!" haha no doubt i'll be having a bad day sometime and that will actually happen!
Maybe we should all become drinking, drug taking hopeless types - they seem to have no prob popping out kids!
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Posted: 24 September 2014 at 1:43pm |
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Haha Sara, I have considered it! Throw away the healthy eating and being responsible as they all seem to have babies popping out left right and centre! I totally agree with people complaining about their kids- some just don't realize how lucky they are to have them. I'm so sorry for your loss Sara, I can't even imagine how hard it is for you and your husband. Hugs to you x FA have decided they want me to do an MRI before we put our last embryo back in... Maybe that will give us answers?
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Posted: 24 September 2014 at 6:11pm |
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Hi Charlie
I have been through a donor egg cycle - currently 10 weeks pregnant, after rounds of failed ivf and Clomid, happy to answer any questions you may have at all x
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Posted: 24 September 2014 at 6:28pm |
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That would be good Sheri, Thank you, and Congratulations... Is there a way to private message on here?
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Posted: 25 September 2014 at 9:23am |
hi all sorry ive been a bit MIA, just trying to carry on, as we all do.. lurked around the TTC 12mths+ thread but getting closer to my EDD for my angel its starting to get a bit hard to think about. A.Girl so so sorry to hear it was confirmed. hope things are complication-free and good you got to have an appointment straight away to talk about the next steps. be kind to yourself xxx JK, when they do a semen analysis they check three things- overall sperm count, how many are alive and how many are formed right and swimming properly. so im assuming that covers all bases for DH? my DHs one came back with a good count, but over 65% were dead. the ones that were alive were good swimmers though and doing what they should. so we just have to get their lifespan a bit longer than they are right now and well be ok (assuming we can get me ok too!) so yeah, im sure they would check all the things while they were at it? sounds a bit weird to just check one thing huh. I know how you feel about preggo people complaining. I Have a friend who only just told us she was preggers at 20 weeks... although i already knew because she had told my bestie but not me. that was a huge blow. and now on fb shes doing all these stupid cryptic messages "oh so tired today..." blablabla.. ive been there, yes pregnancy is great but its freakin exhausting and not all as amazing and magical as you imagine it to be some days. ive never felt so exhausted in my life being pregnant! but theres being tactful and not complaining like its the worst thing thats ever happened to you.. so i can see it from both sides in a way because pregnancy can be darned awful at times! but yes, theres being uncomfy, and theres moaning and groaning about it like you are so hard done by. (though, i do have a friend who literally vomited every day of her pregnancy, right though the birth even- seriously bad all day sickness to the point she was constantly shaking and lost 14kg in the first 3 months of pregnancy...lol i can excuse her for complaining!- even than, she rarely did- but i bet she felt like rubbish to say the least!) but yeah, its the looking for sympathy bit of it all i hate.. yet i lose a baby and if i complain about that people dont want to hear it??? sigh.. got a positive opk yesterday so hoping ov is on its way today or tomorrow. DH is going away with work for 10 days in both oct and nov..whats the bet its over ov time both times?? so very possible this is our last chance for 2014..otherwise its next year for us..
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Posted: 25 September 2014 at 3:46pm |
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Hi Everyone. Thanks for all the well wishes :-) I posted this in the TTC 12+ page too, but I wanted to share it with you girls as well...
I Spent the day in the hospital yesterday taking the medicine to complete the miscarriage. Thank goodness I was there, too! I needed about 3 litres of IV fluids due to dehydration (doc suspects I had hg, that severe morning sickness for the last few weeks) and I lost heaps of blood (sorry, tmi!) very quickly and nearly fainted. Luckily I had fantastic doctors and nurses looking after me and passed everything by 2pm to be home for bedtime :-) All is good now. We're over past the main sadness of the mc as we've known for weeks it wasn't going to work out and we're very thankful to be done with the pregnancy. To be honest, it was quite traumatic with the severe sickness. So... we're taking a much needed break until IVF starts in a few months. I'll still be lurking to see how my lovely support team is getting on, but I need to take a break from TTC for a while. I think it's only healthy! Big huge hugs to everyone.
Sara, I'll be thinking of you and little George come November. I hope you find peace in all of this.
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