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Rachel1982 
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 Posted: 18 July 2010 at 7:39pm |
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I personally wasn't offended at all by the content if you are coming back and looking at this Nic.
Maybe put a 'TMI' in the title to warn off people who might be a little more sensitive in future, but I agree with the other ladies that if you can't ask this stuff here, where can you ask it??
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mummyofprinces
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Posted: 18 July 2010 at 8:06pm |
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Seriously someone was offended??? For goodness sake incase we all have forgotten to get pg we have sex.. NOTHING you wrote was rude.. a valid question about spotting during pg and that things felt different during sex...
Oh dear lord!
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WestiesGirl
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Posted: 18 July 2010 at 10:58pm |
 melnel wrote:
Seriously someone was offended??? For goodness sake incase we all have forgotten to get pg we have sex.. NOTHING you wrote was rude.. a valid question about spotting during pg and that things felt different during sex...
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Ditto this. Im not too sure whats happened or what other comments were made (Im a bit behind lol). I hope your ok hun.
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Nutella
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Posted: 19 July 2010 at 2:12am |
Yeah I dunno where the comments were made but for heavens sake, you should be able to ask here...anyway, if someone doesn't like what is being said they can just not read.
Anyway, have no idea what the original post was....but my mucus plug came on it's own and there was no blood from memory. I am probably not a good one for comparison coz I had placental abruption so later on in labour I had lots of blood (like heaps and heaps, not just spotting, don't want you to freak out)...but I remember reading on the form thing we had about 'when to go to hospital' that you should ring the midwife if your waters break or you have any bleeding so yeah...they are there to support you so don't ever feel embarrassed about asking if things are normal, even in the middle of the night!!! Plus there is always the hospital midwives you can ring or healthline too...
Hope all is well 
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Posted: 19 July 2010 at 9:27am |
I have no idea what happened here or who took offense 
Nic I hope you're okay??
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Posted: 19 July 2010 at 6:41pm |
Nic.... hugs to you chickie  and hope to be able to stalk you in your Due in thread soon 
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Posted: 19 July 2010 at 8:12pm |
wow, i pop back in to lots of comments and concern!
I am fine ladies, thanks so much for asking after me, im really feeling the love!!
I am going to bring it up with my mw on wed at our appointment, i decided not to tell her about it at the time as it stopped on its own and was not very much to start with, just something unusual for me IYKWIM
So yeah, thanks everyone for your comments, its really good to know i have the support here when i need it 
Hope this finds every one of you well
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Posted: 19 July 2010 at 10:54pm |
Pleased youre ok hun Thats what the forum is here for.
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Nutella
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Posted: 20 July 2010 at 12:00am |
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That's good, glad everything is okay and good that you have midwife on Wed so you can ask your little heart out about any strange things lol.
I think that trusting your instinct is really important and when things are strange 'for you' it is fine to feel concerned.
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Posted: 20 July 2010 at 9:12am |
Well, I hope it doesn't make me unpopular, but to be honest, when you share details about how it was 'tight' but you were 'ready', my first reaction is 'well, that's way more than I'd be sharing about my sex life on a public forum'! I'm more of a 'So we BD'd last night and it's possible I have a graze from that' kind of girl.
In saying that, I don't think there's anything that says you shouldn't post that kind of stuff, it's not like it's pornographic or anything. Just perhaps a bit TMI for me (so perhaps TMI in the title would have helped).
As for the actual question, I think the standard advice applies - most likely nothing to worry about at all, but if anything bothers you that's what midwives are there for and I'm sure they'd rather you asked than worried about it 
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mummyofprinces
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Posted: 20 July 2010 at 10:22am |
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While I can see where you are coming from Hopes, they may have been pertinent details even if not written in the way others may have worded them.
It can be quite disconcerting when things feel "weird" so I think its a far enough question.. ie was whatever causing the spotting related to the changed "conditions"....
Anyway, Nic hope you are ok today.... your fb status has me slightly concerned!
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Posted: 20 July 2010 at 11:25am |
Do talk to your MW about it Nic.
For me with my blood type, spotting / bleeding of any kind is something I need to be concerned about, and to inform my MW of.
I had something similar happen to me in the 1st tri and it seriously freaked me out and scared the sh*te out of me. I was too scared to go near DH until 12 weeks scan.
Sorry but blood during pregnancy aren't something anyone wants to see.
Your MW will have heard it plenty before and will no doubt reassure you one way or other.
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