does any one here have or had or poss may be contemplating getting an OE au pair in?
any insight into how about doing it in NZ would be helpfful as we want to be setting up for one if we have another child. We would get one from USA, Europe most likely (we have asian language covered from Aunty EE so thought another insight for Ella would be cool).
I mean by au pair - a live in, full timer, not a slave, but "mothers help" - part of the family. NOT a nanny etc...
Also if anyone knows what kinda costs etc they are looking at now....hving done it myself i want someone else to experience the same...altho I will have to train BSDH to behave before one arrives of course