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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Candkids Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 04 April 2008 at 10:46pm
this happened to me too,
my bf and i have been friends since we were 12 we did everything togeather, even when we moved away wed txt or phone every day, then we flatted togeather for years, even when i had sarah she was probably the only 1 of my friends who still treated me as me and came around on a daily basis and still invited me to lunch and out for a girls nite ( which everyone else stopped doing)
then something happened, life took over i guess, i bought a house so moved out and i think that was the turning point, we,d txt and email and then wouldnt talk for months in fact i think i only saw her once during my pregnancy and she still hasnt seen jett at all!
the emails are few and far between, and when theres a phone call its like we saw eachother yesterday and we talk for hours and hours, i miss her alot, but its like bobby said we just dont click anymore but were still close friends.

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Kellz Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:52am
So I didnt end up emailing back. I didnt know what I wanted to say or what I felt about it all.
Just checked my emails again, and there is another email from her saying that she is taking it as I dont want to be friends cos I havent replied.
Arghhh I dunno what to do or what I want. I know I cant be bothered emailing, but thats to anyone not just her.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote arohanui Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 07 April 2008 at 11:55am
Oh dear, doesn't that seem a bit highschool-ish? Or is that just me?
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Yeah! But every relpy I think of writing sounds like that too! Thats why I havent replied. My replies go along the lines of- having an email relationship isnt working for me,..and telling her about the things she has done that have upset me. But I dont want a catfight.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote arohanui Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 07 April 2008 at 12:05pm
Yeah I totally wouldn't know what to say either

I would probably actually just send a chatty lil email and then make a comment at the bottom like 'sorry I haven't been in touch as much as I would have liked to, you know how busy things get! I find it hard to sit down a write emails, so I'll give you a call some time so we can catch up properly. Much love'... or something like that. Just kinda ignoring what she'd said lol. Probably isn't the best thing to do but it's what I'd do!!
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Yeah I should have replied.

I sent a tiny email then saying sorry I havent repleid. Im upset and dont know what to say.

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