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Emmecat
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Posted: 16 October 2010 at 5:55pm |
Hey Vanillabean! *waves* 
Thanks for sharing that...interesting that you didn't find your recovery that bad? That gives me hope if I do need to have a section, think I will def go for a planned one, although am quietly hoping we won't need it! 
Good on you for trying to BF despite all the problems you had doing so, I honestly don't know how I would cope if I couldn't though . It's so important to me, but I appreciate having a healthy bubba and Mama is more so. I'm hoping that Clodagh would help out in that arena as I'm still Bf her so maybe she'd keep my supply up? aargh who knows.
Baby has done major moving today, HB still seems to be faint below my tummy button but my whole tummy seems to be constantly hard so she'd better not have moved into a sideways position lol. 
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Posted: 16 October 2010 at 7:05pm |
Emmecat I had huge oversupply issues even after my c/s. I had been dripping colostrum for weeks before my c/s and afterwards they said I had enough to feed the whole ward. We did have problems feeding and I weaned at 3 months but that was due to repeated infections and other problems (and I expect his allergies were a cause of the rest of the problems, but we didn't know he had any at the time), I don't think any of it was due to the c/s and it certainly wasn't due to a lack of milk, if anything it was having too much that caused most of my problems.
Plus you also have the advantage of still feeding another child and being an old hand at this whole feeding business. Your milk will take longer to come in, I had baby on the monday and no milk till friday, but he had loads of colostrum and was ok on just that until he got the milk, so don't panic about feeding.
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Posted: 16 October 2010 at 7:18pm |
If you are feeding an older child, then slowly your milk will change to become more colostrom the closer you get to the birth, then you will have colostrom and generally milk comes in again pretty quickly. I can't imagine that you will have any problems whatsoever with supply as you already have a good milk supply.
You should have a chat with your local La Leche League group. They are really helpful with breastfeeding issues.
Often older children will self-wean when you have a second child as they don't like the taste of colostrom.
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Posted: 16 October 2010 at 9:15pm |
I was wondering how BFing works when you have a brand new newborn, like with the colostrum and stuff.
I wouldnt think you would have any issues with BFing EC, you have milk already so dont see a c section drying it up... (I would love some info on this if anyone has any good links? sorry to thread jack!)
ooohh I just hope shes turned for you and stays there! Be a good girl for your mamma!!
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Posted: 16 October 2010 at 9:55pm |
Yeah, I guess if you have heard of others having problems it can make you anxious, but I reckon it will be fine. I don't remember it taking a long time for my milk to come in, had DS on the Monday and was home on the Thursday and had established feeding by then...the only trouble I had was silly old flat nipples. I had LOADS of milk as well lol...
Also, I found the c sect pretty easy to recover from despite it being a super emergency one (plancental abruption)...but that sounds like it is just the luck of the draw sometimes. Some people have an easy time and some don't!
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Posted: 16 October 2010 at 10:00pm |
My milk took over 10 days to come in, started to come in at 10 days but still took another 4ish days of expressing to be producing enough.
Also ended up with 2 infections, spent the first week in hosp (went home when DD was 7 days old) and then was back in hosp for her 3rd week (day 16 to 22)... Both were infections from having a c section and then being in hosp, wouldnt have got them if I had had a VB or let the Drs try to work out what was wrong the first time. Totally not the way I want to do things next time. However as my MW said, I was very unlucky to have so many things go wrong.. so its prob not the standard, however its the only experience I have...
Anyway, bubs is going to turn and stay turned so you wont have to worry about it
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Posted: 16 October 2010 at 10:12pm |
Urgh poor you, not the greatest way to start being a mum. i ended up back in hospital with mastitis and an abcess when DS was about 8 weeks old. I wonder if I would have had if my body had not had to recover from c sect...hadn't thought about that til now.....
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Posted: 16 October 2010 at 10:14pm |
Hehe I have mastitis too (luckily managed to avoid hospital though!) which has led to our on going feeding issues, but thats another chapter!!
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Posted: 16 October 2010 at 10:24pm |
The joy of breastfeeding...haha! Wait til the teeth come...waaa! DS is just lucky he has such a cute face.
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Emmecat
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Posted: 17 October 2010 at 7:51am |
Yes I've seen what you went through Emmi and TBH it's a reason I'm worried! I don't mean that in a bad way, just it wasn't cool to see a mate go through that sort of thing so I"m worried it might happen to me. You were ALOT braver than I would've been (not just saying that btw...I know my pain threshold etc lol).
I think bubs is still head down...well her HB is low now, not high and she's been making mega movements.....the only thing I can't tell is if she's head down or if she's sideways, cos my whole tummy is feeling tight most of the time and the kicks are everywhere!!!
I do belong to LLL and they are awesome, really helpful in matters of BF and sections so some info I have has been gleaned from them too. 
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Posted: 17 October 2010 at 9:05am |
When Addie turned it was really hard to tell what was where because she left this big pocket of liquor where her head had been, so belly mapping wasn't as useful then. Fingers crossed your little monkey is indeed head down (and stays that way!).
FYI though, it took a week for my milk to come in after my c-section with JJ (Emmi I had a wound infection) but my milk came in pretty much instantaneously with Addie. Yes there was the difference that Addie was a VB, but it usually takes a couple of days for your milk to come in, so I'm guessing if you were still feeding a toddler and had a c section it would take less time for your milk to come in than if you hadn't been feeding iygwim (maybe a couple of days).
hila1 my toddler seemed to really love the taste of colostrum  Emmi there's a whole section on kellymom devoted to tandem feeding which explains how it all works if you're interested
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Emmecat
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Posted: 17 October 2010 at 1:55pm |
Yeah I am thinking CLodagh is gonna like the taste of colostrum lol...she certainly hasn't shown any sign or inclination of wanting to self wean throughout the pg, even when I"m sure I didn't have much milk!  Now I think I have some more coming in, she is one happy camper lol.
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Posted: 17 October 2010 at 8:25pm |
DS was breech my entire pregnancy - I went in for an ECV but I didn't have enough fluid so they did not want to risk trying it. I then was waiting to hear back from AKL hospital for my c-section date when DS decided it was time to come! (2 weeks early). I went into early labour and I was 3cm dilated. I was sent for a scan when I got to the hospital to make sure he hadn't decided to turn and he was still breech so I was whisked away for a c-section.
I have heard of heaps of stories of babies turning in labour though - fingers crossed you don't need to make the decision
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Posted: 17 October 2010 at 8:34pm |
Oh and just about the c-section itself - I had the best birth experience I could possibly ask for. (I didn't have a VBAC to compare it to though!). Because I went into early labour, we had the excited - oohh it's time! (But I would have been just as happy with going in on a planned date) and the c-section went so well. The atmosphere was excitement from us aswell as a feeling of calm. Recovery wise, I was driving after 2 & half weeks. Before that, it was a little tricky but nothing I couldn't manage. DH hung the washing out & did the vaccumming for a few weeks. The only really tough thing for me was getting out of bed sometimes (it was easier to kind of roll out)- a rope tied to the end of the bed to pull up would have been fantastic!!!
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Posted: 18 October 2010 at 9:25am |
Breastfeeding was really important to me too and to be honest I was devastated when it didn't work out. But like any kind of loss, you grieve it and you heal and move on.
Anyway, it really doesn't sound likely to me that having a c-section would cause you major BF problems. Once again, I am a weird anomaly with this  And as I said, I think it would have happened even if I had had a VB.
Hope that baby stays put head down!
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Posted: 18 October 2010 at 12:46pm |
Emme - I reckon your little lady has turned for you  But IF not, I agree with your plan to book in the elective ceaser (as late as possible). I think Clodough still BFing will mean you avoid any problems with milk supply etc, so I definitely wouldn't worry about that. IMO the worst thing would be for your DF to miss DDs arrival just because you were waiting to see what happened on the day... from experience, being faced with needing an emergency c sctn, can be a really distressing, emotional and hormonal time, so you're better to plan for one and come to terms with it in advance, if it's looking to be the likely outcome anyway IYKWIM.
And can I also say, it is SO GREAT to read all the positive stories of people's c-section experiences on this thread. I had a rough time dealing with DDs chaotic arrival, and have a planned c-section to deliver my son in just a few weeks now. Some of the stories on here have really strengthened my hope that DS's arrival will be a calmer and happier time for me
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