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emz
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Topic: Do you feel like youre getting stupid? Posted: 23 June 2008 at 12:04pm |
I honestly feel like my brain is turning to mush being at home. Don't get me wrong, I love it and wouldn't trade this first year for anything but I'm under-stimulated. My other job (the paid one  ) is as a deeds clerk so that uses little to none of my brain capacity either. I've been doing Sudoku, crosswords etc to keep the brain in check but I'm getting bored. I don't have the energy (or a really good book that grips me) to read at the moment with DH being away. The lack of adult conversation bar here is driving me
So, are you getting stupider too (hehe)  Or is it just me?
Do you have any tricks to keep your brain functioning at the level required when you normally work fulltime away from the home?
But then again, I'm not as bad as my mother who last night while making pudding and gravy mixed the two together  Luckily the pudding was salvaged and didn't have much of a hint of brown gravy (I say 'much' though...)
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Rachael21
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 12:06pm |
Oh yip I so know what you mean. I do suduko and logic puzzles but sometimes its just not enough.
I'm going to polytech next month part time to try and revive the brain.
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 12:08pm |
nah! i was stupid to start with!
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 12:09pm |
I know the feeling. The study helps a lot for me!
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 12:09pm |
YES.
I swear to God, each child took about 30% of the brain I had and I'm left operating on... um..... Hehe.
Depressing huh?
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 12:11pm |
I've only been on leave for a week and I'm already climbing the walls!
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 12:12pm |
I feel stupid now, must start during pregnancy and stays till after bub is born nnoooo.
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 12:36pm |
Yeah, I've gone completely stupid already and I'm usually quite quick and on to it.
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 12:51pm |
I feel stupid quite often as well. I am lucky that I can work casually from home when ever I want so I can use that to stimulate the brain.
A few weeks ago I had to do a sales report for work that I used to do a couple times a week (BC - before child!) and could do in my sleep. The first time I did it a few weeks ago it took 2.5hrs, I still didn't think it looked right and I was absolutely exhausted!!
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 1:22pm |
I too am the same.. went out with some friends the other night, and it took me ages to warm up and start talking to them... I was stuttering and getting words mixed up before that!
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 1:29pm |
Me no dumb dumb. Me clever!
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 1:40pm |
Woo hoo there is hope for us we have one person who isnt dumb.
What are your tips of success?? lol
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emz
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 2:31pm |
I stutter now too! WTF is with that?
Maybe I'm just too tired? I look after Jack during the day, go to work at night and look after DH too (seriously he creates more mess and work than Jack does). Or maybe just trying to get used to Groundhog Day in our household. Or MAYBE I just need a life!  (Or a job  )
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 2:31pm |
Reading helps, as well as doing alot of crosswords and sudoku. Making your grocery list on a spreadsheet and catergorising all wardrobes in the house by length and colour. Go online and see what DH has bought for lunch then add up everything he has wasted money on for the month, you can compile that into a spreadsheet as well then turn it into a presentation and have a debate with him over it when you get home....
If all else fails watch PLAYHOUSE on sky mickey mouse clubhouse or the number jacks will sort you out
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 3:04pm |
I had a job interview last week and my brain actually came out of hiding for it. So it was there all along - who knew?
Seriously, just going into a work environment and talking about something other than poos helped my feel like my old self - even if it was just an hour and I got to talk about how great I was for the whole time...
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 3:53pm |
Don't you love Mummy Brain. I have just found that half my vocabulary is now missing. I will start talking and suddenly realise I can't think of the word for something. I will end up either changing it to something else or miming it until the other person guesses! Seriously! I am starting to wonder if i have filled my brain up with so much useless information that there is now an overflow!
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 4:02pm |
Im definately dummer and i seem to get dummer by the day - 3 years since I've worked, so it cant be long before it stops functioning all together.
Im even finding it hard to type something right now which makes sense... oh and I stutter, I guess my brain wants so badly to just talk baby talk its a fight trying to say anything normal.
I do love crosswords and sudukos when I find the time.
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 4:26pm |
Hi, have you considered doing a paper at Uni, extramural even, if that suits your life better?
I have a three year old, and have always worked part-time (in a job that doesn't really require much thinking either), and I picked up a few papers...it's great. I can do the work at home, at night or when my son is resting or at playschool.
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emz
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 4:34pm |
I have a part-time job, and finished my degree last year so I really want to have a break from studying.
Lol NeoshasMummy - I HAVE made a grocery spreadsheet, worked out how much DH spends and had a debate with him over it
Might have to get the canvases out and begin painting soon (and I'm not a painter so that would be interesting lol)
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Posted: 23 June 2008 at 4:47pm |
Tell me about it. I have been on semester break now for 8 days and I am itching to get back into it. But I have to wait till next week.
Puzzles do help.
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