dont know what to do

Oh my god, ive turned into the phycio bitch from hell, you only have to look at me and it sets me off...

I was never like this with my first pregnancy and i dont know how to handle it...i have even got to the point were i almost packed my bags and went to stay with mum and dad for the night...but would much rather Kent and Rhiannon left so i could have the house to myself.

I feel so horrid, yet i dont know how to tell Kent how im feeling, its hard enough with him constantly going on and on and bloody on about not getting any special cuddles...and i think thats my main problem is he is making me feel like im being a useless wife cos im not putting out at the moment, but i dont know how to tell him i dont want him touching me without hurting him...arrggghhh

I was the same and turned back that way at the end too. Maybe just try and explain you are feeling like crap so he doesn't expect too much from you. Or seeing if he could take rhiannon out on the weekend so you can have time by yourself.

Ooo maybe your having a boy?

hi...i was exacly the same... till about 8/9 weeks i was a cow...I don't know how he put up with me...he started off going on about not getting any but when we talked about why and stuff since then he has been really good.. which is great even though he used to make stupid jokes that I don't find funny!

Nothing I did made me any better mood wise except eating and sleeping I can only imagine how hard it is with another child too..rest assured you are not alone:) I am 13 weeks now and am in a much better mood most of the time provided I get enough sleep... once I spoke to DH about how what he said made me feel he did stop it..so that was great...and only occassionaly let me have it when i was being a total cow...!

kawwww wrote: rachandjack why would moods mean you are having a boy?

Just cos Kaz said it wasn't like this when she was preggy with Rhinanion.

I think it is a phase, I went through it but once it passed and I was the one wanting it all the time I remembered what I did to him and got over it. I did do the little nagging thing for a bit but it soon all passed.

I was just about to suggest you talk to annie (fattartsrock) about it but I see she got in there first Hugs Kazzle, hope you feel better soon. Oh yeah tell Dh to go suck eggs, pressuring isn't going to suddently make you feel like "doing it" Typical man, mine is no different

Hi Kazzle I don't have any words of wisdom sorry but if it helps I was also very moody first trimester (mainly weepy but I did throw things too ) and then a week ago I got a bad bout of hormones and was very depressed and weepy and couldn't cope with anything. From what I understand it's very normal.

For what it's worth I think starting this thread is a good thing. Being able to share with others helps heaps.

I was totally like this but didn't have a partner so my poor flatmate took the brunt of it. Actually, I was like that with my second pregnancy too, right from the start. I was sooooo close to kicking the crap out of Zeke every time he opened his mouth. Ohhh I'm so sweet.

Hate to think what'll happen next time... Maybe I'll just put in a disclaimer.

Hope it passes soon babe

well today its been great, went back to bed at 7.30am slept till 9.30am, did some housework, hubby took Rhiannon to the park, he cooked lunch, and dinner tonight and he bathed rhiannon so ive had a relaxing day...its been good.

i snapped all the time when i was preg with james, I think Nathan & Boo had had enough of my moods.

well im sticking to my guess of it being a wee brother for Rhi
hope things get better from now.