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netballgirl4 
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Posted: 05 April 2006 at 8:16pm |
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Me ok my darling hubby had been complaining 2 me about feeling unwell with a headache ect for a few days and I just told him hes just getting a cold and to have some vitamin C and this afternoon hes boss calls me tell me that Will has collapsed and a had a fit and to meet them at Auckland hospital I only got home about 30 minutes ago the Dr don’t know whats going on so hes having a MRI scan in the morning I feel so guilty
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robyn
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Posted: 05 April 2006 at 8:21pm |
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Oh no, I hope he is ok. You cant feel guilty for that, I would say the same thing especially this time of year with the changes in weather and there are so many bugs going round its not surprising you though it was something basic. if he had of been feeling that sick he would have gone to a doctor and chances are even the doctor would have said the same thing. Stop feeling guilty and just concentrate on looking after yourself and hubby and make sure you let us know how things go.
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Posted: 05 April 2006 at 8:28pm |
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thaks robyn i keep u guys posted i dont no if its the hormons but i got there i saw him and i bursted into tears hes staying over night snd i miss him ,so im talking to u girls
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Posted: 05 April 2006 at 8:33pm |
oh my god catherine!! how frightening for you both! please let us know how he gets on, thoughts are with you 
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Posted: 05 April 2006 at 8:35pm |
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Its horrible aye, Darron had his gall bladder out earlier this year and it was the first time I had seen him so well helpless I guess and sick and i was really upset. Plus he had to stay overnight which seems to make it more serious and I hated the idea that I was home in our bed while he was there but really its the best place for him. I guess this must be how they feel seeing us go through so much pain during labour and having to stay in hospital.
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Posted: 05 April 2006 at 8:52pm |
Sweetheart, I know it's harder said than done especially when you're pregnant, but please don't feel guilty about what happened - it is in no way, shape or form your fault. You couldn't have known what was going to happen, it sounds as if it wasn't presenting as anything serious, and with this weather and everything else I would have said the same things as you (to my hubby). Fair enough, when things like this *do* happen it's pretty overwhelming, and I think what you're feeling as "guilt" is only really a testament to how much you love him, are committed to him, and just want him to be safe. I know you already are, but just focus on giving him all the love you can and taking care of him. Keep us up to date, we're here for you !!
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Posted: 06 April 2006 at 7:20am |
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Don't feel guilty! I once told Lewis to "be a man, get over it" - he had pneumonia and was going to be admitted and have his lungs drained. Your firstthgouht isn;t "serious illness", it's usually "cold/flu" etc. So, I think we would have all done what you did - not the worst wife at all!!!!
I hope your DH is feeling much better today! And you too!
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Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:04am |
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oh thanks i tell u this afternoon how the MRI scan went fingers crossed
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Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:05am |
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Oh thats terrible, I hope hes okay. Thinking of you. BTW you arent a terrible wife.
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Posted: 06 April 2006 at 8:53am |
Oh chicka i hope you and ur hubby are doing ok, dont blame urself on this i woke up once next to my bf feeling really ill and thought i had the flu half an hour i had my head down the toilet and then another half an hour i was in hospital with appendisitis (spelling) these things can creep up really fast chicka *BIG HUGS* to you chicka and try to not worry to much he is in the best hands 
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Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:04am |
Yah I would have done the same....would have told him to get over it too. You are not a bad wife!!!
I hope that all is well with your hubby. Best wishes....and
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Posted: 06 April 2006 at 9:22am |
Oh my! Like the others have said, Catherine, don't be so hard on yourself! You couldn't know, and we all would have reacted the same way to our hubbies!
Keep us updated, we're all here for you!
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Posted: 06 April 2006 at 2:04pm |
oh catherine, you poor girl! don't be hard on yourself, if my husband had said that to me i never would have thought anything more than you did of it. big 's to you and i'll be thinking of you and hubby.
take it easy and remember to look after yourself and bubs too. (its easy to forget when we're stressed and worried)
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Posted: 06 April 2006 at 2:23pm |
Hope hubby is feeling better today and you find out what is going on (not knowing is usually the worst thing). Look after yourself.
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Posted: 06 April 2006 at 2:26pm |
Hope everything is ok today. Don't beat yourself up about it - we all know men are big wimps.... hard to tell the difference between somthing and nothing sometimes.... 
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Posted: 06 April 2006 at 4:51pm |
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ok sorry i have taken soon long but i have bad news the MIR scan shows a lump on the left hand side of his brain they are goning 2 remove it and test it for cancer in a few days :( i have had the worst day every i'v been crying on and off all day but just thinking about it is hard and to make matters worst my dad past away last year of cancer and i lost my older brother to drink driving and i carn't stop think i could lose my hubby i carnt wait intill 2 day ends
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Posted: 06 April 2006 at 4:52pm |
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and i have high blood presure so i meant to relaxs and not stress
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Posted: 06 April 2006 at 5:02pm |
Oh Catherine....so sorry to hear about your hubby. We will prey that it is not cancer and just a growth of some non dangerous kind.
I know its hard but relax and think positive. You need to think of your bub as well. We are here if you want to vent out but take care of yourself.
You and your hubby will be on our minds and prayers.
Take care
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Posted: 06 April 2006 at 5:08pm |
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thanks i needed 2 vent but i have to call the in laws they live in england i'm going 2 stay at my sisters 2 night as its closer to the hosp. and i dont feel like being alone 2 night
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Posted: 06 April 2006 at 5:16pm |
Catherine, fair enough you shouldn't be alone at a time like this anyway, you need all the support you can get - and I second the part about taking as much care of yourself as you possibly still can. More 's for you !!
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