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TraceyA
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Topic: Plastic Surgery Add on OhBaby! Posted: 29 September 2008 at 9:57am |
I'm a little disappointed to see the top add on OB at the moment is for plastic surgery, with a slogan of how plastic surgery made her "feel confident again". What happened to love your body, being proud of your mother shape. I know that adds bring in money but that's certainly not one I want to see, especially at the top of every page!
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 10:54am |
Funny, there is another thread on this too. Have to admit I feel like you and was a little gutted to see that Ohbaby had used an ad like this.
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 11:08am |
i was just thinking that too! although there are a lot of women out there that do put body image on the top of the list for their self esteem and with all those tv programs telling us that surgery is the only way to go, im not that surprised they are trying to reach the mummy market. i would get new boobs if i could afford it!
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 11:18am |
I had reconstructive surgery recently (medical reasons) on my boobs but it doesn't fill me with that much confidence and I don't need to be reminded about my imperfections every time I come on here. Just another hypocritical thing I guess, this place is supposed to be about empowerment and support not appealing to those with no self esteem and lots of money (head count of how many of us have enough money to go and get plastic surgery?!)
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 11:25am |
I'm going to be the overly sensitive one and say that personally I find the ad brings me to tears. I have body issue problems and going through pregnancy then the after effects on the body is mentally hard, I try to embrace my "mummy" body shape but that ad sure doesn't help.
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 11:37am |
yep no way i could!!!
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 11:47am |
Yeah no way I could afford it even if I wanted it - am also not enjoying seeing that ad on every page.
Yet more pressure to look a certain way, as if there isn't enough of that on TV, in magazines and everywhere else. I want to love my post baby body when it happens, stretch marks and all that jazz are normal parts of it, so yeah it doesn't seem like the right kind of ad for here, but oh well!
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 11:49am |
I agree with you all, it ins't very good for the self image for that ad to be on here
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 11:50am |
I hadnt even noticed untill everyone brought it up.
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 11:57am |
I'm not even a mummy yet, and I find it rather inappropriate too. I think it pushes all the wrong messages at people who don't need *extra* things to worry about!
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 11:59am |
It's JUST an ad, and the purpose of that ad is not to make you feel bad. Not intending to offend here, but your self images issues are your issues, not Oh Babies. They are a business and need to operate as one. Its the same (IMHO) as being offended by formula or breastfeedign ads. Plastic surgery is a part of life today, and yup, I would have it in a heartbeat.
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 12:13pm |
I wonder if OhBaby can get rid of it, I did find it a little strange and it brings the site down for me  .
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 12:31pm |
mmm I don't like it and think it's bad taste to have it advertised here. Even if it was elsewhere on the site rather than flashing as me while I read the forums I'd be happy
However having said that I have a strong dislike for all plastic surgery ads regardless of where they are but that's just my opinion.
But as fattartsrock said, OhBaby is a business and I guess whoever pays for the advertising space has a right to occupy it.
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 12:31pm |
I think that plastic surgery is something a lot of people would persue if they could afford it.
Unfortunately, not everyone can.
For me, I wouldn't consider it. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Every kg I lose gives me more encouragement to continue and as my fitness increases I feel better about myself. My sense of self is coming back, as is my love for my body.
I still have wobbly bits, and am a size 12, but I haven't felt sexier in a long time.
Personally, I feel working for your ideal body shape would give more satisfaction than having the fat sucked out. At the end of it all, you have to keep up a healthy lifestyle to maintain the plastic surgery results.
After that novel, I don't really see a problem with the ad, as fattartsrock said, OHBaby is a business and need to operate as one, so let them have their ad (and funding) so their awesome website can keep going
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 12:32pm |
I was also surprised. I know Oh Baby is a business but I think it goes against the nature of the forums etc.
I don't have body issues and generally feel good about myself but I still don't think it supports women in any way.
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 12:41pm |
I don't like it either. I saw it this morning and was mort. My body isn't great and it made me feel like sh*t actually. I can't afford plastic surgery!
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 12:47pm |
I know they're a business but I'm not the biggest fan of the ad - I guess I'm fairly neutral but do find it a bit strange to have at the top of the page
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 12:55pm |
I don't have a problem with it. I bet that company paid a fair swag of $$ to have their ad up there.
I can't afford plastic surgery but it's something one day I wanna get done on my boobs (reduction) and I'm hoping to get it done publicly for medical reasons.
But hey each to their own.
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 12:56pm |
Good grief it's just an ad!!
I'm not a small girl, but something like that certainly doesn't make me upset or depressed just cause it's there.. I am baffled as to why people are making such a big deal about it?
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Posted: 29 September 2008 at 1:07pm |
It was the first thing that loaded on the page for me so couldn't miss it! I actually think it's really bad placement by the company, although us all talking about it means it's getting noticed so their marketing people are probably reading these threads and enjoying the extra attention it brings to their business.
I don't like the ad and I have a big problem with the perception in society that we should all strive for the 'perfect body' after having kids. That ad is one small part of a much bigger problem, and I don't enjoy seeing it flashing on my screen every time I go to a new forum page.
That said, OHBaby! is a business and they're here to make an income. They can sell advertising to whoever they want and I can see how the plastic surgery ad hits a certain target market here. My values don't come into it.
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