OK, so 3 times in the last 2 weeks DD has told me (she is 6) that she wants to change her name so that she has her dads last name and the same last name as her brother and sister (they have different dads, i am remarried with the same last name as my younger 2).
I have explained to her that we need to speak to her dad about it, and explained that we dont want to hurt his feelings or make him upset.
My question is, do I bring it up with him or should I leave it until she talks to him about it? I want to make it clear that it is entirely her idea, and I havent emphasised the point at all.
We have 50/50 custody, and are on pretty amicable speaking terms
TIA