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DzinerGirl
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Topic: Weaning of feeding to sleep Posted: 24 October 2010 at 9:32pm |
For those who feed or fed to sleep...when & how did you wean bubs off it?
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KatzWtgn
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Posted: 24 October 2010 at 10:18pm |
I'm probably not going to be much help because I haven't weaned DS off feeding to sleep and I wasn't planning to - it's such a nice easy way of getting him to sleep!
Is there a particular reason you were wanting to wean him off it?
DS does go off to sleep during the day by himself - especially in the car or in the sling. Maybe you could try putting your baby to sleep in the sling during the day as a different method?
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Posted: 24 October 2010 at 11:57pm |
Do you feed to sleep at all naps and bed times?
I fed Jackson to sleep ONLY at night and overnight till 11 months. But that was cos he would fall asleep on the boob while feeding. All other times we did feed play sleep, so he self settled during the day.
When I stopped it, he cried for the first 3 nights but since then its been fine. I just went in every few minutes and cuddled him and patted him.
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Posted: 25 October 2010 at 8:12am |
We did the same as westies girl only at night (although every now and again during the day if she was particularly fussy). Now she goes to bed awake too as we have feed stories then bed. I started feeding her then reading 1 page and into bed and gradually lengthened the story. Now we feed in the lounge then taking her down to her room for stories then into bed which we managed with no fuss and no crying.
You can feed until drowzy then put into bed and just lengthen out the time between feed and into bed gradually. I think about 5 minutes between feed and bed is good.
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Posted: 25 October 2010 at 8:36am |
I still do it too. He can go to sleep on his own during the day but sometimes I like feeding him to sleep lol it's cute.
I would like to start reducing how often I do it tho. So I'll be reading along too
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Posted: 25 October 2010 at 8:39am |
Totally OP but KatzWgtn I just looked at our tickers and our babies must have the same birthday
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Posted: 25 October 2010 at 11:58am |
I dunno when we stopped feeding to sleep but maybe about 3-4 months I think. I did it coz he was a crap sleeper during the day (still was after the change tho) and hoped that if he self settled he might sleep better.
I just started taking him off the boob when he was getting drowsy rather than asleep and then at first he would complain so sometimes would go back on but eventually increased his wakefulness.
He was a weirdo tho coz at night he would go back into his bassinette wide awake and settle himself but during the day he was a shocker.
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Posted: 25 October 2010 at 4:44pm |
KatzWtgn wrote:
I'm probably not going to be much help because I haven't weaned DS off feeding to sleep and I wasn't planning to - it's such a nice easy way of getting him to sleep!
Is there a particular reason you were wanting to wean him off it?
DS does go off to sleep during the day by himself - especially in the car or in the sling. Maybe you could try putting your baby to sleep in the sling during the day as a different method? |
This was us too, although now that DD2 is nearly 15mo we feed to drowsy and then she is popped straight into bed, sometimes she has a wee grizzle and sometimes not.
I don't mind it, and at some stage I *might* consider trying to space things out a little so she feeds awake and goes to bed awake... but it works for us so we are just going with it.
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Posted: 25 October 2010 at 5:21pm |
I weaned Lily at 4 months simply because she was getting too much fore milk so rather than feeding her as soon as she woke up and then an hour later when she went to sleep, I would get her up and after about 30 mins feed her and then 30 mins later - bed!
However she's started solids and I feed her to sleep in the evening before bed and during the day I do sometimes as well (depends if she falls asleep or not).
But pretty much what Katz/Hippy said.
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Posted: 26 October 2010 at 8:11pm |
I did at about 6 months and substituted feeding to sleep with rocking to sleep. I then tried to slowly progress to patting to sleep but then somewhere along the way I forgot to move past that and went backwards to rocking to sleep and sometimes even feeding to sleep recently....
I was using the No Cry Sleep Solution and the Sleepstore have a version too.
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Posted: 26 October 2010 at 8:53pm |
Hmm okay maybe I don't need to stop doing it - the only reason really was getting him to go to bed if I'm not there....what do you do in that case?
I don't feed him to sleep during the day, I do feed, play then sleep it's just at night it doesn't end up working
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Posted: 26 October 2010 at 9:54pm |
DzinerGirl wrote:
Hmm okay maybe I don't need to stop doing it - the only reason really was getting him to go to bed if I'm not there....what do you do in that case?
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I can't/don't leave him. I have to be there to get him to sleep
I have ONE friend that can rock him to sleep and that is it. Lol. If he took a bottle it'd be a different story I'd try get him to take a bottle of EBM to fall asleep on then once he's used to it anyone could do it. But my DS doesn't take a bottle so hmm lol
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Posted: 26 October 2010 at 10:26pm |
DS takes a bottle when I'm not there (I work 3 days a week), but doesn't fall asleep with it -- DH and Nana wish he did!
They tend to cuddle him to sleep when he does sleepy cues (rubbing eyes is an absolute giveaway for him).
We actually only gone out at night without him once (we usually take him with us) -- that was a wedding, and DH ended up singing "Rainbow Connection" down the phone to him to put him to sleep -- it was very cute  but he got some strange looks from the other guests!
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Posted: 26 October 2010 at 10:27pm |
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Posted: 27 October 2010 at 1:08pm |
That is so cute KatzWtgn!!
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